Well here it goes. My wife and I have been separated for seven months. We did get back together for 11/2 months and I thought things were going well. When we separated she said that she thought that were like roommates and did not have the connection that she wanted. She was involved in an online affair with one person and had one physical encounter with another. She did come to me and wanted to try again. She did acknowledge that she was wrong and I did forgive her. Being a christian I felt very strongly about trying again. We were back together and she had said that she was feeling really good about us and was committing to even moving back in together. This was also very promising for our two children. She was spending the majority of the time at my house and we were even being intimate. Since that time she has moved back out and she said ';Well I tried and it is not what I want'; She said that a lot of things were better, but not enough for her to stay in the marriage. I have also learned that she has been having conversations with another man since moving out. I have made it very clear that I do not agree with this but realized that I cannot change her mind. I have told her that I am still committed to her and I believe that marriage is something that you do not just throw away when you don't have ';that feeling'; I still love her very much and don't want to give up on the marriage. I have done everything to show her that I am there for her, but she just said that our personalities are too different. As a christian I want to ask what do I do about this?I need relationship advice?
divourcing i think is a sin becuz at the beigingint he priest or person that set up your marriage specifically sed you guys shud stick together thru sick and well and all that thing so yeah. its not your loss its hers. you sound like a good person but God doesnt expect you to pray to Him with every problem. And you an't expect Him to fix every problem you come running to him about right?? anyways, you're loving her even after she left and tahts good becuz thats true love. if she sed you guy's personalities are ';differet'; then why did she get married with you in the first place?? and why in the 1st place did she fall in love with you?? tell her that you expected this marriage to be big.I need relationship advice?
wow thats kinda what i think ima bout to go through except im in ur shoes, all i have been doing is praying. u r a christian so pray. it is not our will but his, so he may have something else in store, i feel like u its too bad for the kids and im not prepared to go through it but with GOD on our side im ready. (i think)
well the fault lies with her....it is something that is missing from her life....the bible gives a clear reason to divorce someone ......unfaithfulness.....and for good reason. If you have tried to work it out, and she is not willing to be faithful, there really is no point to continuing the relationship......a marriage is a partnership based on trust, loyalty and commitment....just as your relationship is with god.....and you can clearly see that your relationship does not mirror these qualities. I think its time to end it.....find someone with the same value system as yourself and live a happy life. good luck : )
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Looking for relationship advice?
Okay so I am looking for advice! You know the stuff you ask for when you already know what to do. My girlfriend and I celebrated our 2 year anniversary last week. Things have been going pretty good for us. We do tend to argue but what couple doesn鈥檛. I have kept our relationship a secret from a lot of people and only recently started telling people myself. I have only told those who I know would still be there for me regardless. I do not feel comfortable with people knowing and I am not sure that is ever going to change. Last night I broke up with her. I feel at times that I am living this double life. I hide that fact that we are dating from people I work with and pretend to be single. The same is true for my sons father and his family. I have also not told my son ( who is 5). I am scared of what that lifestyle could mean for him. Especially if my GF doesn鈥檛 really want to move in and take that parent role.Looking for relationship advice?
IT'S good to explore... but do one at a time... it's not fair to date women and tell her you are lesbian then date men on the side( not saying that you are ) also not fair to a man... you telling him you are straight and u mess with women behind his back.. be honest about what you are doing.... date mingle explore... just dont do it while you are in any relationship... not fair for your lady to get man juice if she only dates woman.. i hope I made sense.. GOOD LUCK!Looking for relationship advice?
Keep experimenting till u figure it out.You are probably bi.......
This guy sounds like he only wants sex. No guy who wants an serious relationship would say, I want to get in your pants. Also on the lesbian issue, you don't deserve to be with a woman. Leave women alone. You will just hurt them and just confirm that bisexual women can't settle down. You obviously can;t handle being with a woman, if you can't now then your never will.
first be proud of who are dont go around hiding be proud you are a attractive woman and who you fall for is just that you fall for dont let other people worry you about their hang ups about same sex realionships yes you night lose some friends but its amazing people do understand and really dont care as long as they see you happy. why not tell your son you are bringing him up with the mind that of other people you are trying to hide it honey there is nothing wrong with what you are doing be strong your sons lifestyle is going to be the same if not better as he will grow up to be a well rounded young man and will have learnt that you cant judge people just beacuse they are different from other people in this world and wow he will have an extra person to love him.
dont be so hard on yourself have a life wether that be with a guy or a chick love is love
i wish you all the luck in this world and hold your head up high
it sounds like you're compatible with both, so if i were u, i would first see who your child is more drawn to
IT'S good to explore... but do one at a time... it's not fair to date women and tell her you are lesbian then date men on the side( not saying that you are ) also not fair to a man... you telling him you are straight and u mess with women behind his back.. be honest about what you are doing.... date mingle explore... just dont do it while you are in any relationship... not fair for your lady to get man juice if she only dates woman.. i hope I made sense.. GOOD LUCK!Looking for relationship advice?
Keep experimenting till u figure it out.You are probably bi.......
This guy sounds like he only wants sex. No guy who wants an serious relationship would say, I want to get in your pants. Also on the lesbian issue, you don't deserve to be with a woman. Leave women alone. You will just hurt them and just confirm that bisexual women can't settle down. You obviously can;t handle being with a woman, if you can't now then your never will.
first be proud of who are dont go around hiding be proud you are a attractive woman and who you fall for is just that you fall for dont let other people worry you about their hang ups about same sex realionships yes you night lose some friends but its amazing people do understand and really dont care as long as they see you happy. why not tell your son you are bringing him up with the mind that of other people you are trying to hide it honey there is nothing wrong with what you are doing be strong your sons lifestyle is going to be the same if not better as he will grow up to be a well rounded young man and will have learnt that you cant judge people just beacuse they are different from other people in this world and wow he will have an extra person to love him.
dont be so hard on yourself have a life wether that be with a guy or a chick love is love
i wish you all the luck in this world and hold your head up high
it sounds like you're compatible with both, so if i were u, i would first see who your child is more drawn to
I need relationship advice, help!?
Myself, my daughter, and my boyfriend of 5 yrs are getting ready to move cross country. We are going to be living with my family for the first year so we can save up money. My boyfriend has already said that if he can't find work within the first few months that he is moving back and rejoining the service. I said that if he did that I would no longer stay in contact with him. I love him and want to stay together but I cannot deal with a long distace relationship. Any advice on how to make our move successful?I need relationship advice, help!?
Moving across the country is tough and stressful. First off, make sure your BF updates his resume and get it posted to all the job sites he can find. Also, depending on his experiences, tell him not to be too picky. Coming from the service does have many advantages. Use his military experience and find a job that correlates with what he did in the service. For example, my husband operated heavy artillery in the Army for 5 years. He didn't think there was any relevant job in the civilian field. He started working with a construction company and ran into a crane operator. He checked out the crane controls and realized that they looked almost identical to the controls on rocket launchers. So he was able to use his 5 years in the service as 5 years crane experience and was able to land an amazing job very quickly.
If he has trouble with that - seek a staffing firm, they will ask the right questions, help him build the best resume, and also aid him with finding a job.
You are going to need to be very patient and supportive. Never get down on him. Do not discuss money as he is very aware that you have none. Mentioning it will only stress him out more. Don't try to shove job offers down his throat and trust his judgement and decision. He seems to be doing everything he can and has his family's best interest in mind.
One question - why would he have to move back to re-up? He should be able to re-inlist from where ever you are.I need relationship advice, help!?
Find out what jobs are available from your parents information sources. Take the time to be very patient with your husband. Rejoining the service sounds to me like he may have some issues of a haunting memory. Yeah, I know he says he's okay. You would leave your husband because he is going to defend our country? Sounds to me like you need a better job and a little more things to do with your time.
The issues are with you not him. How much do you really love him? If it's lots, you'll wait and maybe even say a prayer for him. If he does die overseas you will always know you were there until the end for him. If he survives you will feel so alive and wonderful when he returns. Your parents are being very generous....Take the chance on him.
I think it depends on how deep you love for him is. Through this, i think that you will find if he is someone you can live with, or someone you cant live without. Because obiously, there are plenty people that we could all ';love'; and be perfectly happy and content with. but...if you find that you truly cant live without him in your life, i think that you should chase after him because you dont stumble across a person like that every day.
make things happen by thinking positively.you should think that you are going to be happy and with your boy friend. your boy friend will be able to find a good and reasonable job with all these things happen you will be happy living with your daughter and boy friend. things will be better and who knows so many happy and surprises are in the pipeline .be happy. be positive.
It's gonna be really hard, take it from me.
My girlfriend moved out west last summer and we couldn't keep it going. I loved her, and I still do but its just way to hard.
The only thing I can suggest is that you go visit him as often as possible. Because to be honest, it's not going to stay going otherwise. Telephone and internet just isn't enough.
sorry but I'm being honest
best of luck.
Have him join the Air Force. They VERY rarely get deployed and NEVER spend a single night in a tent.
Moving across the country is tough and stressful. First off, make sure your BF updates his resume and get it posted to all the job sites he can find. Also, depending on his experiences, tell him not to be too picky. Coming from the service does have many advantages. Use his military experience and find a job that correlates with what he did in the service. For example, my husband operated heavy artillery in the Army for 5 years. He didn't think there was any relevant job in the civilian field. He started working with a construction company and ran into a crane operator. He checked out the crane controls and realized that they looked almost identical to the controls on rocket launchers. So he was able to use his 5 years in the service as 5 years crane experience and was able to land an amazing job very quickly.
If he has trouble with that - seek a staffing firm, they will ask the right questions, help him build the best resume, and also aid him with finding a job.
You are going to need to be very patient and supportive. Never get down on him. Do not discuss money as he is very aware that you have none. Mentioning it will only stress him out more. Don't try to shove job offers down his throat and trust his judgement and decision. He seems to be doing everything he can and has his family's best interest in mind.
One question - why would he have to move back to re-up? He should be able to re-inlist from where ever you are.I need relationship advice, help!?
Find out what jobs are available from your parents information sources. Take the time to be very patient with your husband. Rejoining the service sounds to me like he may have some issues of a haunting memory. Yeah, I know he says he's okay. You would leave your husband because he is going to defend our country? Sounds to me like you need a better job and a little more things to do with your time.
The issues are with you not him. How much do you really love him? If it's lots, you'll wait and maybe even say a prayer for him. If he does die overseas you will always know you were there until the end for him. If he survives you will feel so alive and wonderful when he returns. Your parents are being very generous....Take the chance on him.
I think it depends on how deep you love for him is. Through this, i think that you will find if he is someone you can live with, or someone you cant live without. Because obiously, there are plenty people that we could all ';love'; and be perfectly happy and content with. but...if you find that you truly cant live without him in your life, i think that you should chase after him because you dont stumble across a person like that every day.
make things happen by thinking positively.you should think that you are going to be happy and with your boy friend. your boy friend will be able to find a good and reasonable job with all these things happen you will be happy living with your daughter and boy friend. things will be better and who knows so many happy and surprises are in the pipeline .be happy. be positive.
It's gonna be really hard, take it from me.
My girlfriend moved out west last summer and we couldn't keep it going. I loved her, and I still do but its just way to hard.
The only thing I can suggest is that you go visit him as often as possible. Because to be honest, it's not going to stay going otherwise. Telephone and internet just isn't enough.
sorry but I'm being honest
best of luck.
Have him join the Air Force. They VERY rarely get deployed and NEVER spend a single night in a tent.
In need of some relationship advice please!!!!!!!!!!?
So my Fiance Thomas and I have been dating for a year now and we have had our good times and our bad like every couple and I love him so very much and I cant imagine myself living life without him and I thought he felt the same way but you see my family is always telling me I can do better and making rude remarks about Thomas and it hurts him so much that he is not happy and considering leaving me....please what should I do I really do not want to live without him?!!!
Also every weekend we are kinda stuck going to the mall is there a fun game or something we can do to spice things up when were there?In need of some relationship advice please!!!!!!!!!!?
Tell him you don't care what your family thinks about him. My girlfriend's dad doesn't like me at all, and he expresses it, but I deal with it, cause I love my girl so much. Tell him you can't live with out him. Let him know how much you love him. I can tell that he is the most important thing to you. Good luck!In need of some relationship advice please!!!!!!!!!!?
ok well it sounds like your family is not bein very family like your family should support you in everything you do. so if i where you i would nicely tell them that he is the one you want and your prob not gonna change your mind and tell them it hurts your feelings and ur bf's feelings also..
another good idea is to talk to your bf about it alot and where he sees you guys in o say a year or 2 and just go from there. talk about with him about things you two can do to work it out.
remember every good relationship has it's ups and downs you just need to learn to get through the bad parts.
i hope i helped you and good luck
god bless!
for one thing, you might want to take what your family is saying into consideration. you know they only want the best for you, and perhaps they're not seeing it in thomas, or they probably dont see him enough or know him enought to say otherwise. try spending some quality time with him and your family, that way everyone will get to know eachother and perhaps your family's views will change? try not to be one sided about this. you love him very much, but dont let that blind you. talk about this with him, find out what makes him uncomfortable. talk to your family, ask them what they dont like about him.
as for the mall.. try going somewhere different! like the park. have a picnic! or go to the beach and spend a day just laying there (i know its a little cold now). or just go for a simple walk around the city, grab something to eat, and enjoy the day.lip cream
Also every weekend we are kinda stuck going to the mall is there a fun game or something we can do to spice things up when were there?In need of some relationship advice please!!!!!!!!!!?
Tell him you don't care what your family thinks about him. My girlfriend's dad doesn't like me at all, and he expresses it, but I deal with it, cause I love my girl so much. Tell him you can't live with out him. Let him know how much you love him. I can tell that he is the most important thing to you. Good luck!In need of some relationship advice please!!!!!!!!!!?
ok well it sounds like your family is not bein very family like your family should support you in everything you do. so if i where you i would nicely tell them that he is the one you want and your prob not gonna change your mind and tell them it hurts your feelings and ur bf's feelings also..
another good idea is to talk to your bf about it alot and where he sees you guys in o say a year or 2 and just go from there. talk about with him about things you two can do to work it out.
remember every good relationship has it's ups and downs you just need to learn to get through the bad parts.
i hope i helped you and good luck
god bless!
for one thing, you might want to take what your family is saying into consideration. you know they only want the best for you, and perhaps they're not seeing it in thomas, or they probably dont see him enough or know him enought to say otherwise. try spending some quality time with him and your family, that way everyone will get to know eachother and perhaps your family's views will change? try not to be one sided about this. you love him very much, but dont let that blind you. talk about this with him, find out what makes him uncomfortable. talk to your family, ask them what they dont like about him.
as for the mall.. try going somewhere different! like the park. have a picnic! or go to the beach and spend a day just laying there (i know its a little cold now). or just go for a simple walk around the city, grab something to eat, and enjoy the day.
Need help with some relationship advice!!?
I am girl and I met the girl I am in love with 3 yrs ago. Our relationship has been weird. She told my brother that she is bisexual. My issue is this, I know she has feelings for me and she knows that I love her but the catch is she lives with her boyfriend.She moved in with him 9 months ago but she tells me she lives with her dad. It hurts soooo much to see them together. She shares everything about her relationship with her friends, but it seems as though she wants me to be kept in the dark about all of this. She would even call or text me really late at night. I don't know why she is playing all these games. I accept that she does not want me.I want to end or relationship and leave all of this but I can't seem to bring myself to hurt her even after all the times she has hurt me. What should I do? Do I leave the one I love or do I stay and get my stupid heart crushed?Need help with some relationship advice!!?
Honestly to me, it sounds like she is either uncomfortable with her sexuality (keeping you in the dark, and playing those games). Maybe not greatly, but at least a little bit. OR she may be having a hard time deciding who exactly, and what exactly she wants out of a relationship, because you and her boyfriend offer her different things in a way. But honestly? I've always told people, you have to look out for yourself in these situations. You need to care about people, and chance letting yourself fall in love, but if you know you're getting hurt it really is better to get out of the relationship, especially if you see no way to work the situation out. So I suggest you talk to her about this, tell her exactly how you feel, in a polite and respectful way that shows you're just trying to work this out for your own better good and for the better good of the relationship. If that doesn't work, it is time to move on and call it quits. The goal of a relationship is finding someone you care for and love, that loves and cares for you in the same way that you can enjoy yourself with, and that you would not hurt nor would they hurt you. It seems you're not getting this with her. So talk to her, see what happens. End it, if it can't work out. You'll meet other people, and I know it's hard. But things always work out one way or another.Need help with some relationship advice!!?
Sweetie your heart is already crushed. The only difference in staying and leaving is that if you leave eventually the pain will stop and you will move on with your life. Before you knew all of this that you have described she was treating you badly....now that you know it you are allowing her to treat you badly. You need to end the relationship and find someone who will be good to you. I have a feeling you aren't the only one she is playing games with.
leave her for now and stay busy. when she see's that you are so busy she will want to know why you stopped thinking of her. She will want you more.
Honestly to me, it sounds like she is either uncomfortable with her sexuality (keeping you in the dark, and playing those games). Maybe not greatly, but at least a little bit. OR she may be having a hard time deciding who exactly, and what exactly she wants out of a relationship, because you and her boyfriend offer her different things in a way. But honestly? I've always told people, you have to look out for yourself in these situations. You need to care about people, and chance letting yourself fall in love, but if you know you're getting hurt it really is better to get out of the relationship, especially if you see no way to work the situation out. So I suggest you talk to her about this, tell her exactly how you feel, in a polite and respectful way that shows you're just trying to work this out for your own better good and for the better good of the relationship. If that doesn't work, it is time to move on and call it quits. The goal of a relationship is finding someone you care for and love, that loves and cares for you in the same way that you can enjoy yourself with, and that you would not hurt nor would they hurt you. It seems you're not getting this with her. So talk to her, see what happens. End it, if it can't work out. You'll meet other people, and I know it's hard. But things always work out one way or another.Need help with some relationship advice!!?
Sweetie your heart is already crushed. The only difference in staying and leaving is that if you leave eventually the pain will stop and you will move on with your life. Before you knew all of this that you have described she was treating you badly....now that you know it you are allowing her to treat you badly. You need to end the relationship and find someone who will be good to you. I have a feeling you aren't the only one she is playing games with.
leave her for now and stay busy. when she see's that you are so busy she will want to know why you stopped thinking of her. She will want you more.
I really need some relationship advice asap!?
I've been together with my boyfriend for 5 months, we're both 16. Recently I took him to Florida with me and my family for a week on vacation, it was great. He was texting one of his girl best friend a little often but I didn't let it bother me too much. However, things have defiantly changed between us, he never calls me babe anymore and I feel like I have to convince him to hang out with me, i hate it. So, tonight I logged onto his myspace account(horrible i know, but in the past he's basically spelled it out for me, says he doesn't care that i know his password and he's got nothing to hide) so i see no harm in it. wrong.
I find i message to his girl best friend that he texted over vacation. He says in the message ';hey i just wanted to say you look freaking amazing in your new pics, i would have commented but emily would have flipped'; i was so upset! first of all that he went behind my back, and that he said that.
I mean I don't have a problem with him checking other girls out, we're 16 I don't want this relationship to be serious, just fun. but how can it be fun with him hurting me like this. I know it was horrible of me to go onto his myspace, but im pretty sure my actions can be justified, can he say the same about his?
I have no clue how to approach him about this. I'm scared, I really do like him, I adore him even though all of this. I can honestly say i've never hurt him and would never think about it, i'm just looking for a nice guy that cares. I thought that was him, but im finding out he's just not. Its happened before when he's been shady about things, and I just don't see how this is fair to me. How would you go about this problem, any advice would be very much appreciated. I'm trying to go about this whole thing maturely and trying to avoid as much drama as possible. I just want to be happy.I really need some relationship advice asap!?
Wow... I think thats terrible on HIS part. You cant assume that someone will be completely blind, but you have the right to assume that they wont do anything about it. If he sees a hot girl, he should just think ';shes hot'; and move on. I think its going over the top to talk about it with friends more than a few times, or else it means theyre obsessed. Unfortunately, he went even farther than that, and told her herself. That part is completely unacceptable. Its fine to think a girl is hot, but dating implies that you wont do anything about it, and youll just let it go when you think someones hot and it wont turn into an obsession.
Ive been in this same situation myself, and I think you just have to tell him it bothers you. Be honest. If you dont tell him that you went on then you are being no better than he is. Whats a relationship without honesty? You need to tell him (without trying to pick a fight) that it bothers you, and tell him that its just not acceptable (which its not) while you 2 are dating. Just tell him the full truth.I really need some relationship advice asap!?
You don't want it to be serious, BUT, you really like him and adore him...? Make up your mind, woman.
And was what he did really that bad? He complimented another woman about her looks. Did you explain to him at some point that doing so would be against your rules? No? Then let it go. It's not a big deal. The part about you flipping out, that was a bit unnecessary although judging from what you've wrote, perhaps accurate. Complimenting a girl doesn't mean he's going for her.
If you want to handle this maturely, confront yourself and your own jealousy. Sincerely ask yourself ';Am I overreacting? Is this something I can get over, and let it go? Would having a messy confrontation improve anything or make me feel better?';
If you bring this up to him, he'll be defensive, and he'll be upset you went on his myspace behind his back. He'll lose trust for you. Is it worth it?
first of all, i want you to sleep on it for a few days. common sense comes easiest to a well-rested mind.
i've known guys like your boyfriend. they need to flirt with other girls to boost their self-confidence, and to assure themselves that they're still desirable. quite honestly, even if you adore this guy, odds are that affection is blinding you.
i would recommend waiting for the problem to either get worse, or work itself out. right now, there's not a whole lot for you to be upset about. innocent flirtation and a little deception is common in sixteen year old boys. but if he keeps going, and things start to concern you, sit him down and be firm with him. let him know you want commitment, but you aren't asking for a marriage. remind him of what a relationship to ONE GIRL means, and if he continues to be a jackass, i say you dump him and cut your losses.
I find i message to his girl best friend that he texted over vacation. He says in the message ';hey i just wanted to say you look freaking amazing in your new pics, i would have commented but emily would have flipped'; i was so upset! first of all that he went behind my back, and that he said that.
I mean I don't have a problem with him checking other girls out, we're 16 I don't want this relationship to be serious, just fun. but how can it be fun with him hurting me like this. I know it was horrible of me to go onto his myspace, but im pretty sure my actions can be justified, can he say the same about his?
I have no clue how to approach him about this. I'm scared, I really do like him, I adore him even though all of this. I can honestly say i've never hurt him and would never think about it, i'm just looking for a nice guy that cares. I thought that was him, but im finding out he's just not. Its happened before when he's been shady about things, and I just don't see how this is fair to me. How would you go about this problem, any advice would be very much appreciated. I'm trying to go about this whole thing maturely and trying to avoid as much drama as possible. I just want to be happy.I really need some relationship advice asap!?
Wow... I think thats terrible on HIS part. You cant assume that someone will be completely blind, but you have the right to assume that they wont do anything about it. If he sees a hot girl, he should just think ';shes hot'; and move on. I think its going over the top to talk about it with friends more than a few times, or else it means theyre obsessed. Unfortunately, he went even farther than that, and told her herself. That part is completely unacceptable. Its fine to think a girl is hot, but dating implies that you wont do anything about it, and youll just let it go when you think someones hot and it wont turn into an obsession.
Ive been in this same situation myself, and I think you just have to tell him it bothers you. Be honest. If you dont tell him that you went on then you are being no better than he is. Whats a relationship without honesty? You need to tell him (without trying to pick a fight) that it bothers you, and tell him that its just not acceptable (which its not) while you 2 are dating. Just tell him the full truth.I really need some relationship advice asap!?
You don't want it to be serious, BUT, you really like him and adore him...? Make up your mind, woman.
And was what he did really that bad? He complimented another woman about her looks. Did you explain to him at some point that doing so would be against your rules? No? Then let it go. It's not a big deal. The part about you flipping out, that was a bit unnecessary although judging from what you've wrote, perhaps accurate. Complimenting a girl doesn't mean he's going for her.
If you want to handle this maturely, confront yourself and your own jealousy. Sincerely ask yourself ';Am I overreacting? Is this something I can get over, and let it go? Would having a messy confrontation improve anything or make me feel better?';
If you bring this up to him, he'll be defensive, and he'll be upset you went on his myspace behind his back. He'll lose trust for you. Is it worth it?
first of all, i want you to sleep on it for a few days. common sense comes easiest to a well-rested mind.
i've known guys like your boyfriend. they need to flirt with other girls to boost their self-confidence, and to assure themselves that they're still desirable. quite honestly, even if you adore this guy, odds are that affection is blinding you.
i would recommend waiting for the problem to either get worse, or work itself out. right now, there's not a whole lot for you to be upset about. innocent flirtation and a little deception is common in sixteen year old boys. but if he keeps going, and things start to concern you, sit him down and be firm with him. let him know you want commitment, but you aren't asking for a marriage. remind him of what a relationship to ONE GIRL means, and if he continues to be a jackass, i say you dump him and cut your losses.
I need help with relationship advice. What do you think I should do?
Please read carefully. I really need your advice whether or not if you're just quickly glancing through this. I'd appreciate if you can be detailed with your answer, and if you could possibly provide a way I can contact you if I like your answer? Just to update things between me and her, if at anytime i become annoying just tell me and I'll stop.
There's this girl that I think I'm falling for, I'm not sure if she likes me or if I'm being lead on. I do a lot of things for her, that I wouldn't do for any other girl unless they meant something to me.
Whenever we hangout we're almost always next to each other, touching each other (not sexually, but playful and affectionate). We were at my friend's house watching a movie, and she kept playing with my fingers, holding my hand. One night when we were hanging out at this karaoke room, we cuddled. There's a lot of things that me and her do that if you saw us, you'd think something was going on but there's too much.
At times I think I'm just being lead on to the point where when we are sometimes hanging out, I hate her so much, I feel anti-social and I try attempting to ignore her when we're together but I just can't because she is always near me. A few times when we hung out, she's asked me why I'm so unusually quiet but I won't give her an answer other then i'm just tired, I don't want to tell her that I'm ignoring her obviously, or she puts me in a bad mood.
Theres so much other things involved between me and her, it makes it so complicated, which is why I need to tell you these things and need your advice. I know it sounds like I'm a loser, but I go to a small school and the only people I can tell are close to her as well, and I don't want them telling her what I tell them.I need help with relationship advice. What do you think I should do?
the way you guys act makes it seem like she has feelings for you. dont hate her! be optimistic, pick the flirting up a notch, and see what happens
:)I need help with relationship advice. What do you think I should do?
I think that you're not being lead on, it sounds like she is giving clear signs that she likes you. The fact that she asks you why you're being quiet shows that she cares if there is something wrong and cares what you think. You should talk to her one of these times when you're hanging out and ask her if she has ever thought of being more than friends. See what she says. If she doesn't see some kind of future with you then will be the time to ignore her.
ask her to be in an exclusive relationship with you. if she says no, move on.
Well from the way it sounds I have a feeling she is interested in you. If she is single and you guys have been hanging out for a while, why not just ask her? That is the only way you can find out without anyone else knowing. Unless you have one good friend that can point out when you guys are being ';affectionate';. You can tell him to jokingly say ';Are you guys dating?! stop being so intimate...'; and then you can see how she reacts to that question....
There's this girl that I think I'm falling for, I'm not sure if she likes me or if I'm being lead on. I do a lot of things for her, that I wouldn't do for any other girl unless they meant something to me.
Whenever we hangout we're almost always next to each other, touching each other (not sexually, but playful and affectionate). We were at my friend's house watching a movie, and she kept playing with my fingers, holding my hand. One night when we were hanging out at this karaoke room, we cuddled. There's a lot of things that me and her do that if you saw us, you'd think something was going on but there's too much.
At times I think I'm just being lead on to the point where when we are sometimes hanging out, I hate her so much, I feel anti-social and I try attempting to ignore her when we're together but I just can't because she is always near me. A few times when we hung out, she's asked me why I'm so unusually quiet but I won't give her an answer other then i'm just tired, I don't want to tell her that I'm ignoring her obviously, or she puts me in a bad mood.
Theres so much other things involved between me and her, it makes it so complicated, which is why I need to tell you these things and need your advice. I know it sounds like I'm a loser, but I go to a small school and the only people I can tell are close to her as well, and I don't want them telling her what I tell them.I need help with relationship advice. What do you think I should do?
the way you guys act makes it seem like she has feelings for you. dont hate her! be optimistic, pick the flirting up a notch, and see what happens
:)I need help with relationship advice. What do you think I should do?
I think that you're not being lead on, it sounds like she is giving clear signs that she likes you. The fact that she asks you why you're being quiet shows that she cares if there is something wrong and cares what you think. You should talk to her one of these times when you're hanging out and ask her if she has ever thought of being more than friends. See what she says. If she doesn't see some kind of future with you then will be the time to ignore her.
ask her to be in an exclusive relationship with you. if she says no, move on.
Well from the way it sounds I have a feeling she is interested in you. If she is single and you guys have been hanging out for a while, why not just ask her? That is the only way you can find out without anyone else knowing. Unless you have one good friend that can point out when you guys are being ';affectionate';. You can tell him to jokingly say ';Are you guys dating?! stop being so intimate...'; and then you can see how she reacts to that question....
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