I need some relationship advice..and the honest truth. Please?

I have been with someone for over a year. And he has a problem with telling the truth. He likes to talk to a ton of different girls over text (some he previously dated..etc) And he lies about it. And then when he finally tells me the truth he gets pissed at me for even asking about it. And tells me I'm just jealous and way to overbearing for even asking. But this last time I honestly had a right to be angry, I thought. I had walked in from outside and sat down on the couch. And immediately as I sit down he grabs the phone. He then gets a text and he acts like it must be a wrong number, and shows me. The text said something like, ';i will, i just got off of work.'; I thought it was odd he grabbed the phone so quickly. And that text was a reply to something...so I was like..are you sure you don't know who it was? Because...I really felt like he was lying. for a half hour he just got pissed and told me I was unbearable. And he was being honest. Then..he's like..okay. It's a girl at work that likes me. And someone gave her my number. I told her I have a girlfriend. And he said that the conversation was short, yet he deleted all the texts magically so he couldn't show me. So then the next day I asked if she said anything to him and he said no. But...he was lying again. Because I asked him and again it took him 20 minutes to be honest. And he said you have no reason not to trust me I'm not cheating on you... I can talk to her. But in my opinion when a girl openly says she likes you and you continue talking to her...there is something wrong there. Especially when said girl invited you out...KNOWING you have a girlfriend. And I asked him to let her know that they should just probably only keep their talking to work. And he refused. He said there was no reason...that he would just stop talking to her.


Yesterday rolls around. He swears she hasn't texted him, he has not texted her. WE are sitting on the couch..and she texts him. And it's a reply to something he said.





He then told me I was just overly jeaous. I had no right to be angry, there was no reason to not talk to her. And that I make him lie to me because I get angry about it. And even though I just said be honest with me last night...he still for another 20 minutes told me I was just being crazy..and he was being completely true.





So am i out of line?I need some relationship advice..and the honest truth. Please?
try living without a phoneI need some relationship advice..and the honest truth. Please?
hey girl ifeel for you i honestly do you seem like a really sweet person.take it from me i have been divorced twice,my last boyfriend for for years started to play the same game.when he say's he is not doing anything,trust me he is.it sounds like he wants you but he wants to play the field.i know you don,t want to hear that girl but trust me,ijust found out that my ex fiance-boyfriend for 4 years has a dating profile on yahoo singles.you deserve better,i,m 35 and i still have not found anybody true yet.my heart goes out to you,the best thing for you to do is let him go,and if he honestly truly loved you then he would not be playing these childish games.i wish you the best of luck!!!!!!!!go have fun with your friends,and enjoy life.peace

I really need relationship advice. Please help if you can. (Details inside)?

I started dating this guy for a while. Actually we only went out about 5 times. Im 22 and he is 25. Everything was going great until he told me that he is keeping something from me. He said that he was married before but it was for the wrong reasons. He was young back then and things were a bit different, I can understand that. He really regrets it, I can see it in his eyes. He apologized a million times, and said that he wanted to tell me sooner because it would be more complicated later. He sincerely cares about me. I know that even without him telling me. I care about him so much too!. But everything seems more complicated because my heart says to forgive him and be with him, but my head says to be careful and don't take a chance. I really really care about him, and I don't want anything to ruin this. It's up to me now, and I have to be the one to tell him if I want to continue dating or not because he was the one how made the first move. He is giving tons of time, and is really being patient. I don't what to do. I don't think that a past mistake should ruin this now, but then again he lied to me too. What do you think? I want advice please! Thanks!I really need relationship advice. Please help if you can. (Details inside)?
ummmm he didnt really lie to u. he just didnt tell u b/c he prolly wanted to make sure U really cared about him!! and tht u woul look past tht matter! so u just need to follow ur heart b/c he said it was 4 the wrong reasons, he apologizd and he cares about u only! so u should look past it and continue dating him.

I need some relationship advice...?

I've been casual friends with this guy for a year, we had some classes in high school together (he will be a senior, i'll be a junior) and over the summer we've hung out. I don't think he's been in a real relationship before, and I'm pretty sure he thinks we're dating. I wouldn't consider what we're doing dating, but I do like him. The problem is, I like his best friend. A lot. We have a lot more in common than me and the guy I've been hanging out with do, but I haven't been able to get to know him. I know him through my friend who is his sister. I'm pretty sure that the guy I've been seeing wants a relationship, which is fine with me, but I want to also be able to, at some time or another, pursue a relationship with his best friend. Should I keep seeing this guy casually and risk him thinking I'm putting him on or two-timing him, or should I just cut the ties and have the chance of getting closer to his best friend?I need some relationship advice...?
Break it off with the current guy. If he tells his buddy that you two are an item or anything at all the friend wont even look at you until the current guy is over you. If you let this guy think you and him are something more than friends he will develop feelings and then you wont have a shot with the friend. Don't break his heart and ruin your own chance with his friend!

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I need some relationship advice, someone please help me?

Ok, so here is the problem. I really like this guy, James and he really likes me too, but he also likes 2 other girls.. He is always sitting at lunch with Milly (one of the girls he likes) and it annoys me.. I also get upset when I see him hugging one of the other girls.. We used to be really close like he is with Milly.. We used to go out after school, and sit with each other at lunch.. but its all changed now :( He says he still likes me tho.. I just want him back :( just me %26amp; him, it was great then :D .. Milly only likes him because he likes her.. and its so annoying and I with he could see that.. Everyone says we look great together and that we should go out, but he wont go out with any of us because he likes all 3 of us alot. We have lost out spark. We used to have great romantic conversations. Help me get him back? :(





-Anna.I need some relationship advice, someone please help me?
He is gone. Get used to it. You will be wasting your time and making a foolo of yourself tring to ';get him back';

A little relationship advice please?

I made out a few time with this guy just before Christmas and it was going really well, he seemed quite into me. However i am the kinda person who likes to know where i stand with people and what will happen. So i asked him where we were heading? He said that he is not sure what he wants but really likes me. He didn't want me to wait around for him to decide though if there was other guys and stuff. He also said that what ever happens he wanted to stay friends. I took a bit of a back step from the whole situation and tried to play it cool. We stayed friends and talk alot as well as walking with each other to work 3 days a week. I really like him through and really want to make this work. I feel like i should of fighted harder for him :[ I dunno what to do and how to go about this? Also i think i could have left it abit too long? We haven't made out since we had that talk...


I really do like him though ... he is all i think about :s


Thanks for your help and adviceA little relationship advice please?
he oviously liked you anough to kiss you more than once. so he must like in some way. (more than just friends)


keep playing it cool, but try to make some moves.








help with mine please.


http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak6js.TJtMmMcbHqNLANXqMgBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20090322123936AAPpaiSA little relationship advice please?
Sounds as though he likes you. Keep some distance for a while don't see him but talk phone text whatever. If he really likes you enough he will make an effort. Problem is can you really just stay friends if that's all he wants. Could there be someone else........???. Ask him then you know where you stand.
why don't you just tell him how you feel?


you said you like to know how you stand with people and what will happen, so why don't you just tell him what you told me %26amp; everyone else on here?


hope that helps!


good luck!
if it was me i would have a talk with him again


just tell him ders no other guys and u really like him and does he wnat a relationship or not


if not den move on maybe keep some distance with him fr sometime so u cna move on


gud luck
you 2 seam like a great couple going through an awkward phase! just take it easy and hope it gets better for you!





best of luck x :)
well personally if you really like him i would wait. but then Again if he is not sure and it take over 3 months then i wouldn't wait for him. i wouldn't talk to him about it anymore you don't want to seem pushy you know? then it will push him away more. just be calm about this and just wait.if it take 3 months to then i would move on fine someone else who will love you for you. and do what he told you to do move on. i mean I'm sorry to say but it sounds like he is not that interested in you that way. if he does maybe he just really not that interested in dating at this moment some people like to be single since there not tied down. just give it time..








best luck to ya =)

I need relationship advice ?

ME AND MY FIANCE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4YEARS BUT EVERY TIME I THINK OF MARRIAGE I GET ANXIETY . SO HERE IS a LITTLE BIT ABOUT ME I HAVE AANXIETYTDISORDEROR I AM ON MED BUT EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE FOR ABOUT 6 TO 8 MONTHS THEN I HAVE ANOTHER EPISODE . I am VERY HARD ON MYSELF I KNOW I NOT PERFECT AND I HAVE mANY FAULTS I am SO HARD ON MY SELF I ALWAYS THINK OF THE WORST IN EVERYTHING . I GUESS ITS BECAUSE I PREPARE MYSELF SO If something bad happens it will beasy erer i guess . WHICEVERY TIMEME IT IS TURNS OUT FINE . BUT ALL WAYAY QUESTION MY RELATIONSHIP IS HE THE RIGHT PERSON WILL IT LAST WHAT IF I DON'T LOVE HIM ANY MORE WHAT IF HDOESN'T'T LOVE ME ANY MORE what if me leave me what if he is with the wrong person and he find the right person WHAT IF WHAT IF WHAT IF WHY CANT I LIVE MY LIFE WITHOUT THE WHAT IFS WHEN I GO THREW THIS I TOTALLRUININ MY DAYS WHEN I SHOULD BE ENJOYING MY LIFE THEAL WAYAY THINKING THE WORST IN EVERYTHING MY FIANCE IS THE MOST WONDERFUL GUY SURE HE HAS IS FAULTS BUT WHO DOESN'T TO WOMEN GENERALLY GO THREW THIS IS IT MAnxietykY HOW CAN I STOP THIS AGAIN IT ONLY HAPPEN EVERY SO OFTEN BUEVERY TIMEME IT DOES I GET BETTER AND BETTEHANDLINGNG IT . BUT I TAKE ALOT OUT OF ME . WHAT SHOULD I DO .I need relationship advice ?
Meds without counseling is not doing you much good.


Find a qualified counselor and go get some serious help.


Until you have this under control you have no business getting married.


Your bf must be something special to stay with you like this.


Good luck.I need relationship advice ?
I really wish you the best of luck. But sometimes we need to take that chance, if he is the guy for you it could be a good thing for you to have someone stable and caring in your life. you know just like bad things can happen, so can good. Think about the good things and good things will happen.
Honey, if you are having this hard of a time communicating to us, can you imagine how it is for him. You cannot convey nor expect to get any kind of decent answer from anyone in this manner.


Take a deep breath, calm down, re-type your quesion and try again. AND by all means, use the spell checker.


Good luck to you!
I would recommend that you get some counseling to address the issues that you mentioned. You don't want to take these unresolved issues into a marriage.





Inspiring Love,


Nspire1


www.relationships4ever.com
What the hell is wrong with your CAPS lock button. Learn how to use a keyboard and re-type your question please. By the way thanks for the 2 points.
Please find a counselor to talk to about this.






Maybe your doctor should adjust your meds for split personality disorder as well. What's going on with the CAPS????
How old are you?! You wrote aanxietydisorderor as one word and med....
No one will answer this WHEN YOU ARE SCREAMING AT ALL OF US
OBVIOUSLY YOU KNOW THAT YOUR RUINING YOUR LIFE WITH WHAT IF'S , SO THE THING IS TO PUT ALL YOUR ANXIETY AND WORRIES INTO GOD AND ASK HIM TO TAKE THIS FROM YOU. BUT HONESTLY WHAT IS LIFE IF YOU DONT LIVE IT. THINGS ARE GOING TO HAPPEN THEY MAKE YOU WHO YOU ARE, NOT ONLY THAT BUT YOUR PUTTING YOURSELF THROUGH THE WORST AND NOT EVEN GIVING THE GOOD A CHANCE. ITS NOT FAIR TO YOUR FIANCE EITHER. YES HE MAY LOVE YOU BUT YOU CAN ONLY PUSH A PERSON SO FAR

I Need Relationship Advice?

I have been dating this guy for a little over a year now, he is the PERFECT boyfriend he literally treats me like I am a princess and he loves me so much and I love him, well atleast I think I do? I mean I know I should but the terrible thing is I often find myself thinking about my ex, missing him, etc. My ex and I dated off and on for about 4 years (it was very complicated) I broke his heart we got back together he broke mine and things never got better I guess...but I still get that butterfly feeling if I see him and I smile if he ever texts me...so I know it sounds like omg girl get back with your ex like common sense hello!? But it's never that easy...he wanted to be with me after we broke up but I was against it because he did alot of mean things to me..so now awhile later, I am thinking of how I feel about him and I kinda wanna get back with him but he doesn't want to. He is embarassed basically to stay with the same girl for such a long period of time, i duno DRAMA please helpI Need Relationship Advice?
Emily, let me start by saying you should never start a relationship when you're still not over your last one. Now, about this whole issue. I really don't think you should get back together with your ex. You even said it yourself: ';He is embarrassed basically to stay with the same girl for such a long period of time'; What does that tell you about him? Unless you want to climb back on that emotional roller coaster, it is not a good idea.


And here you have a guy who loves you and cherishes you right in front of your eyes. If its up to deciding between them, stay with your boyfriend. But I feel like you made him a rebound boyfriend. (I could be wrong)


And it sounded like you weren't in love with him.


Emily, What will make YOU happy? Don't put too much thought into this question, whatever your heart tells you. Following your heart is the best thing. Life is short, do what you have to!


Good luck with everything!I Need Relationship Advice?
an ex is an ex for a reason. i dont know what that reason is because i dont know you.





my advice: move on and stay with your current. resisting your ex may be difficult at times, but if you havent worked out (twice) then the likely hood is, being with him will only bring heart break.
No it will be the same bull sh*t. Just try to move on.
I know exactly what you mean. me and my bf broke up a few months ago i see him all the time as we have the same friend group and when i see him im like omg i reali love you i know i should be over him but i can't!it sounds so pathetic when i tell my mates but you can't help how you feel can you?! i have been with lads since we broke up but i can't help thinking about him when im with them. the only advice i can give you is follow your heart. life is to short. go for it! x
That sounds like a red flag relationship to me. You don't want to go back to a relationship that was off and on, constantly hurting each other. Especially if he can't see himself with the same girl for a long time. I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years and I still think about my exes. When you date someone you develop a very strong friendship, especially after 4 years. I think you will always have feeling for him, but you have to ask yourself if you want to go back to a destructive relationship. Do you want to go back to being hurt and unsure of how long it will last time?