He kissed me, asked me out, but doesn't want to get into a relationship...advice anyone?

This guy kissed me, and asked me out. It was my first kiss, but he wouldn't be my first boyfriend. Then 3 days later we're talking on the phone and he says that he wants to wait to get involved. I really like this guy, but in the 2 weeks since it happened, I've seen him a few times and he keeps flirting with me. He said he felt like a jerk for leading me on...but what does he think he's doing now? I'm just looking for some different options. And maybe some insight as to what he's thinking. I'm really confused.He kissed me, asked me out, but doesn't want to get into a relationship...advice anyone?
honestly i think he is playing games with you...i mean i obviously dont know him personaly like you do, but it just seems as though he is messing with you.....friends dont kiss friends like they kiss a boyfriend or girlfriend...but he told u what he wants, now u should tell him what you want..be honest with him! and good luck! =)He kissed me, asked me out, but doesn't want to get into a relationship...advice anyone?
Guys prefer slim tall pretty girls, even unattractive guys end up with them girls so basically average girls dont really av a chance, all dey can do is have self-respect, dignity, pride, go with the flow %26amp; not b desperate, 98% of guys said they wud want to marry a slim tall pretty girl or have her as girlfreind if they cud, and they do, so b realistic, tink is dis guy looking, can he do better, is he out of ur league, cuz no matter how nice guys can be deep down they know they can get better and want better slimmer prettier girls, trust me in this, dont be weak, easy , always be urself but smart, realistic. see ya.
He may have met someone but that didn't work out and now he is on the prowl again. Stop allowing him to flirt with you and move on with your life.
He only wants you for sex. Ignore him and move on.
i think that would confuse anyone. maybe what he means is that he doesnt want to get serious about any one and he doesnt want anyone getting s茅rious about him. i dont know it sounds like to me your both very young and shouldnt be getting serious anyways.
Just get over it, it was a simple date!
He probably says he doesnt want a relationship because he is waiting to see what his other options are. I would just move on and look for someone new.
It sounds to me like he doesn't want to commit to you but he keeps flirting, etc to ensure he can still have you if he wants you.


Its a game males play to boost their own egos, he has no respect for you as he knows that no matter how he treats you you will still come running to him if he wants you to.


I suggest you start playing it cool with him, be polite and don't flirt back - he'll realise that you aren't as easy as he thought and maybe - just maybe he will come crawling to you!
He's not sure that he won't screw it up. It was probably a big step and took him a lot of courage for what he's done so far, and he's scared he might screw it up if he tries anything else or gets into a relationship. You gotta lead him through it, show him that yo won't dump him for doing the littlest thing wrong.
he wants sex...without a realtionship...RUN
At least he was honest about it. Too many men and women alike use a relationship as an acess to 'benefits' with no real emotional connection whatsoever.





If you want the benefits and are okay with no relationship, keep talking to him, otherwise let go immediately. Hanging on for even another call will only confuse you and draw you in deeper than you really want to go.
he doesn't want to be in a relationship yet give him time or let him go
If you truely love him then you should wait and see, but you need to tell him how you feel about what he's doing.
maybe he has a girlfriend and isnt telling u. Id prolly stop flirting with him back, he needs to make up his mind and stop messing with u.
Ok if he does not want a relationship what does he want. He wants to kiss you and hold hands with you whenever he wants.?? If he does what does he want to do with everyone else.?? The sooner you realize you are being played the better off you will be. He is setting you up to accept things the way he wants them. How old are you guys.? If he don't want a relationship and you do. Move on. If it is your first kiss GOOD. You should learn that people get things from you without making deals and your the one left with the loss. You gave your first kiss away to someone who all you got from them was NOTHING. He will go down in history as your first kiss. and To him You go down in history as the girl who wanted a relationship and He didn't want one. So learn from it. You wasted your first kiss. He is not worth giving anything else to. Move on. Wait until you can at least get what you want. Know what it is you want. You should not have to settle.





Good Luck
Hes one of those players babe, hes wanting you to give in anyway with no strings attached. Watch out you may regret something.
he wants to be friends with benefits... you up for friendship with sex???