Hey,
Ok i just confessed to a girl that i like her, after thinking it for awhile. To my surprise she felt the same way, however we would hurt too many friends around us, if we told anyone yet. Since, she has rejected a friend of mine and her friend likes me....gah :S
She has said she is not ready for a relationship yet, but she wants me to know she is not leading me on.
Im pretty clueless when it comes to girls, im not sure if she wants me to wait for the right time to come or what?
thankyou, in advanceWhat should i do, relationship advice?
Well, maybe she wants you to wait, or maybe she wants to sneak around for a few dates behind their backs before deciding. Ask her out?What should i do, relationship advice?
Your friends can get over it. Who gives a crap what they think about it? If you don't like the one chick and the girl you do like doesn't like your friend. I don't think they'll really care all that much. At least if you two are dating those two don't have to worry about rejection.
Tell her you like her.. that you don't care what anyone eles thinks about it.. cause its going to be just the 2 of u in the relationship anyways.. dont try to ';please'; your friends by hiding your feelings and sneaking around.
you should just ask her.. or wait until shes ready =)
help with mine?
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Well you really have two options at this point. If you really feel strongly about her, you can stick with it, and try and understand where she is coming from in her situation. The situation sounds pretty awkward to me, and she may be worried about ruining a friendship with the friend that likes you in exchange for a relationship that may not work out to a happy ever after ending. On the other side, you can keep your options open and not keep all your eggs in one basket as her feelings or even yours may change over time while waiting for the proper time to arrive.
Well see most girls when they like a guy alot they will be ready for a relationship... but smart girls have learned to take it slow and enjoy the relationship the way it is before the gf bf fights start. Tell her that you feel the same way you like her alot and your feelings are strong but you dont want to mess things up, no matter what that would make her like you alot more and know you are not clingy.
You have talked, and you like each other. Let that be enough for now. Be friends, and leave the door open for more later on, when you are both ready. You don't have to rush these things. If you are right for each other, then time will not hurt a thing. If not, time will show that as well. Trust her, that she likes you, but isn't ready for a bigger step. She probably wants to see who she is first, and maybe figure out what she wants out of life. That's all good. You can do the same, and when the time comes, be more mature and ready for the relationship when and if it happens. She seems like a sensible mature girl; all good. Yeah, wait, if you like her that way. Good things come to those who wait, remember? I don't think she's playing games with you at all. When and if the time comes, the friends should understand. Good friends do.
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