I need relationship advice please?!?

ok , so im in a rut. i have this ex bf, we broke up almost a year ago. i feel completely over him when i haven't talked to him for a while. but when i see him again or hear his name i kinda get that heartbroken feeling in my stomach.


i recently started dating this guy, i really like him. hes good to me and makes me happy.


problem is, he's really good friends with my ex. now whereever i go, my ex is there. if my bf has people over, of course i'm going to go, but so does my ex.


my current bf knows not to talk about my ex to me because he knows that i dont want to hear it, but he can't completely stop being friends with him for my sake. thats not fair.


im wondering should i even be in this relationship? im so happy with him, but its just really hard on me with the whole ex thing...I need relationship advice please?!?
Don't let your ex ruin yet another relationship! Just try to be civil and work around him. Try to go out with your girlfriends more when your ex is with your boyfriend. Or just hug on your boyfriend more when your ex is around so that you're more focused on your new boo.I need relationship advice please?!?
Look, my advice is that if you're confused at least COMMUNICATE that to BOTH of them. Let your current boyfriend know that you want to end the relationship with him, or ask him to give you some time. Then, you got to your ex and you COMMUNICATE to him how your'e feeling and see what he says. If he say he feels the same, then you get back. But the key here is letting them BOTH know what's going on. Otherwise you're going to drown in this pool of confusion and up and downs.
you need to get over the ex. If you cant then you should not put the new bf through the drama. How sad is it that he has to worry about your feelings of heartbreak over someone else... thats not right.





How would you feel if he still had heartbreak feelings over one of your friends? You would hate it.
Break it once and for all. Make out with your new BF with the old one in viewing range. Make sure he sees you but make him think you are absolutely ignoring him. He won't sho up again. *****.
go back to the ex
If your secure in your relationship with your new boyfriend it shouldn't be a problem.


I am sort of in the same situation... my wife's ex BF is best friends with a guy who is married to a mutual friend of ours, She actually went to a funeral of one of her ex's parents a little while back... and that was probably the best thing she could have done because now he sees that she is happy, in a loving relationship and has moved on. Just fiend a way to show him that you are happy and have moved on and he should get the message. As long as you and your current boyfriend have a strong and honest relationship you should have nothing to worry about but be sure and discuss with your current BF that you dint want details of your relationship shared with your ex, if he cares for you as much as it sounds like he will honor that. Don't try to make his not be friends with your ex, you should also honor his friendships as well he should honor your wishes to keep your relationship private.

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