Thursday, July 29, 2010

Question on my relationship.. advice??

Me and my boyfriend of 5 months have a GREAT relationship.. well until this girl that used to like him came back into the picture.. Recently she's been putting up things about him such as ';oh I love mike!'; And putting him as her #2 on MySpace.. and then he changes his.. he doesn't approve my comments anymore or anything and tells me its ';MySpace, it's drama and I don't care about it. My page messes up'; He doesn't check it often.. Well I've been getting real paranoid lately.. When I ask him about her he says, ';don't believe what you read, she's psycho, I would be with her if I wanted her that bad.'; He lives about 35-40 minutes away from us because me and her live in the same area.. He said he couldn't ';afford doing that and it's morally wrong';.. But blah I don't know what to believe.. I ALWAYS ask about it and he's getting tired of it saying ';is this going to be an everyday thing? Learn to trust me';





What do you guys, girls think...??Question on my relationship.. advice??
He's got to learn to be more understanding about your feelings. I would be concerned too! Especially if she's putting comments like that on her MySpace, it means that she's in contact with him and whatever they are talking about or doing, she's lovin' it. Oh, and his comments about being with others if he wanted to and worried about other girls are disrespectful to you and your relationship. He might not be as serious as you are about your relationship cause it's only been 5 months. Talk to him and give it some time, if you don't see any change, then you should move on. He's giving you reasons to be suspicious and you don't want to be in a relationship and always doubting it.Question on my relationship.. advice??
If you have a great relationship then that should involve trust. If you love someone then you have to give them freedom-they have to be free to live their life the way they want. If he loves you then he wouldn't do anything to jeopardise your faith in him. If you love him then you need to give him space to live his life. It takes compromise %26amp; contined dialogue to make this work. The choice is yours.
Don't listen to the b.s his feeding you.You have a right to be worried about,he's up to something.This girl that likes him,must have a really big affect on him.They're is something going on there,even though he tells you there's nothing going on.When a guy wants to cheat he will always find away,no matter what he has to do.He's giving you a reason not to trust him,leave him,he is doing his dirt.
Just let it go or let him go. Your just going to have to trust what he tells you since you have no evidence he is messing around. If you keep up the whole paranoid thing your relationship won't last very long so just give it a break or either tell him you can't trust him and break up.
dude dump the boy and get a man
i think its b.s. he sounds like a jerk to me...you can do better
Dump him.
Time to find a new bf.
I don't know if you heard, but the Victoria Lindsay thing popped off because of myspace comments and such... Don't let that get to you. Myspace can really damage or help relationships, but your information should be accurate, or have hard core evidence that something went down, then lay it out on the plate. Other than that, Go ahead and let her rant on about man that ';isn't hers';. But don't get disrespected. If she knows about you then maybe you can ask her what the deal is, but if she doesn't know about you maybe you question the boyfriend as to why hes keeping you private! Good luck Girl

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