A little relationship advice please...?

that's what he wants than I guess that's his stupidity... He really is a great person... He's just selfish also... He's 29 and I am 21 (but very mature)...





So, I guess my question is... He wants to be a part of her life and I want him to be a part also, for her sake of course... But, I hate his ex girlfriend b/c of all the problems that she's caused me and all of the crap between them (recently) that she's tried to rub in my face...





How do I get over all of this... I can't make him want to be with me and not her, but how can I come to accept it?? It's so hard on me and I don't want to bring the baby in the middle of it... I've never hated him and I know that without her in the picture we would be able to agree on everything and get along about all of this for the baby... I don't understnad why he's letting her do this to me... Why is he putting her in the picture so soon??





She puts random things on her myspace page just to upset me and it's working... Like, ';Ambers coming over to drop off a baby bed for Kevin and I';... HELLO, THIS IS MY BABY!!





Or, ';Out for a fun day of shopping for the little girl on the way';... THEY'VE BEEN TALKING FOR 3 WEEKS...





Oh, his family didn't come to my shower, they had one for him last night and she was there... Why would he even let her go to a celebration FOR MY BABY!!!





Why would she do this to me 8 1/2 months pregnant... I don't intentionally hurt people, why does this happen to me...





Anyway, I just need a little advice on how to accept/handle all of this... I'm just so hurt and I feel like he doesn't care and she's intentionally hurting me...





What should I do?? ~THANKS~!!


A little relationship advice please...?
If he isn't there for you when you need him if it is his child with you then get rid of him.