Sunday, July 25, 2010

Long distance relationship advice. confuse and depress.?

ive meet my girlfriend or ex last summer. we hit it off, started talking on the phone and built a relationship. im working on moving to where she lived. first 3 months was great got to spend time with her parents for chrismas. the last 2 months went rough because there was alot of suspicions of an affair. schedules always changing, never pick up the phone when out with friends, and only free time to talk are always at 10pm. ive told her how i felt %26amp; lead to many arguments. she told me she been cheated on %26amp; knows how it feels. so i took it as a benefit of a doubt. i visit 2 a month. most fights are over the phone. the last time i visited her we got into a fight and the next thing i know she stop returning my call, txt, or email. i ask others for advice saying. take the hint, she was waiting for someone then cut communication, she only used me for emotional support to get over ex., i got played. i dont know? i havent heard from her in months. any theory advice will help even if it hurLong distance relationship advice. confuse and depress.?
i am in a long distance relationship now, because my bf has gone for further studies...and this is also a case with most of my friends...at this point of career improvement time, most people go for LDR's.....we can only keep touch through internet mostly, otherwise international calls are expensive...anyway, even we fight a lot...but that dont mean we stop communicating...


i don't think LDR is the problem here...i think the girl doesn't wanna go on with the relationship...you should either try to ask her clearly or just take the signs as a break up and move on with your life..


good luck and take care....:)Long distance relationship advice. confuse and depress.?
If you guys fight over things as often as you say you do and if she's really as petty as you say she is, then find someone else. Don't waste your time and energy on something that didn't really have a whole lot to begin with. If you haven't heard from her in months, then just let her go, that's an awfully long time to be sitting around waiting for a call.
this is very sad...


I think the problem was that you didn't see her often and when you moved closer you saw her to much... People always miss people when they are away and a person might not always know the 'real' you when you always speak over the phone... its different than the real thing...


Maybe she did cheat on you, but I dont think that is the reason that you broke up...





My advice... try and forget about her... it's not worth it...





goodluck
wow, sounds like u r a real sweetheart. too bad this chic was such a beeotch. u should be glad to be rid of her.
grow up and get on with your life! if all you two do is argue, then why go back to it?

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