Sunday, July 25, 2010

I need relationship advice (for a friend)?

My friend met this guy over the internet. he sweet talked her and was great to her. made her feel like gold. he made a Special trip to her town just for her. they watched a movie. the next day he went home to his home town. about a week later he came back for another visit Things happened and they ended up in bed together. She spent the night with him, not telling anyone where she was. Her mom would not have cared but the person my friend is living with called the cops because she said she was worried about my friend. The cops were no use finding my friend. Her parents found her them selves and went to this guys house and the police asked the guy a whole bunch of questions. she is 15 and he is 20 to point out. He thought she was 16. after telling the cops the whole story the mother said not to press charges against this guy. He went back to his home town. She asked him if he was mad and he said no he wasn't. so they continued to see each other. gradually he began to pull away then just ended up blocking her saying that he was taking the advice of friends and family to pull away from her because of the situation. He told me why he blocked her. He gave her explination what so ever. what are your thoughts on this whole situation?I need relationship advice (for a friend)?
I think that while him pulling away must have hurt her it was certainly the best course of action in this situation. It doesn't sound like your friend is good at making intelligent decisions, and with and older guy that she met over the internet this situation could have gone horribly wrong. I think she needs to let the guy go and smarten up a bit and maybe get back in touch with him when she can act more mature.I need relationship advice (for a friend)?
Wow! Your friend could have ended up dead. I haven't seen anything good come from internet dating with my friends and I'm too afraid to do it. This girl is too immature to know what's good for her. This guy is finally showing some maturity and doing the right thing. This situation could have been a lot worse.


Girls should realize that guys are not the answer to all their problems and in fact cause more problems if their not good guys.

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