Boy problem.......relationship advice?

Hi, im 16 in 6 days, YAY! And I have a great boyfriend, Jamie, his 17 and his got the looks and personality and im soooooooo lucky to have him =]. The thing is, my dad don't do know about him and he wouldn't approve because he hangs round with druggys, gets drunk all the time and smokes.





Then there's Nathon at school, his 15 and he has badly fancied me since last year in September, his really nice and I think im falling in love with him, but I know i shouldnt because I have a boyfriend. The problem with Nathon is that his ugly (to be honest) and every one at school hates him, even the guys that are desperate for friends, but people think we really suit each other.





Then there Tom, I see him every friday night down a club where my dad goes and his really nice, we like each other and his kinda got the looks too (its not all about the looks i know.....).





So i dont know what to do, if anything i will probably dump Jamie and go out with Nathon because i think its cruel for Jamie when i love some one else, and the only reason im with Jamie is for his looks, help me????Boy problem.......relationship advice?
relationships are about love %26amp; understanding, not looks. Is Nathon worth it? If yes, then go for it girl! what's stopping you? =3





If you're even considering dumping Jamie, he's probz not the best bf for you. But it isn't your dad's life, so don't let him influence you too much. but parent approval IS kinda important. ^_^'Boy problem.......relationship advice?
Well my advice would be to dump Jamie because you don't need to be hanging around a drunk and if all his friends are druggies that says a lot about him. Nathon seems sweet and at the end of the say what are looks? If people at school hate him then that's their problem. Well in the future Jamie isn't going to look that good because alcohol and drugs mess up your skin. It really isn't a good idea to go out with someone based on looks.
I say, do what you feel is right. If your Dad doesn't approve of Jamie, it's got nothing to do with him. When your around the boys, which one do you perfer to spend time with? You should base it on that, and who makes you feel more special. That is how you should decide. Nothing to do with looks, or how many friends he has!!
personiality comes 1st NOT LOOKS
I wouldn't stay with Jamie as like you said, its not really fair if you like someone else.





You shouldn't base your opinion on whether you should be with someone on how popular he is or his looks. You say your falling in love with him so surly thats all that matters?





You haven't said if you really like Tom, but the positive is that your dad likes him. But again, if your falling in love with Nathon then you shouldn't play him along.





My advice is to leave Jamie, and then see how your feelings develop between Tom and Nathon. You may find yourself liking one more then the other.





Remember, you don't need to make the decision RIGHT NOW, and you can always change your mind if you make the wrong commitment.





Happy Birthday for 6 days time.