Desperately need relationship advice, can you help?

I don't usually ask this type of question on here but I am kind of torn and need some advice from a total outsider.





I dated a girl who broke up with me because I wanted something more serious than she was ready for. She then disappeared from my life completely.





Flash forward 16 years and she comes back into my life again. She is still as beautiful as she was and she is interested in me. I am also interested in her but there are some things that I am having trouble wrapping my head around.





1. It turns out that she was messing around with my brother at the end of our relationship and they dated for a while after.





2. She is at the beginning of what looks to become a messy divorce right now.





3. She got HPV from an old boyfriend who cheated on her.





4. We both have children who will now be products of bad divorces and don't need to go through a bad breakup as well.





SO, do I take a chance on this woman given our history and current situations or do I just remain friends with her and keep my options open? Any advice or opinions would be appreciated.Desperately need relationship advice, can you help?
it was a lifetime ago. You know her face, but other than that you should treat her as a completley new person. You can't balme her for doing these things ages ago. I bet she regrets them, don't look back in anger, the past is the past and other cheesy quotes! It's not fair to act different with her now, she'll run a mile.





Just be positive, you find her beautiful! now get into her personality and get that girl you wanted all those years ago.





good luck! xDesperately need relationship advice, can you help?
No!


She left and she didn't care


and she can give you diseases!


Find a clean, good woman!


but your story is a pretty sweet coincidence
Stay away.
give it a chance take it slow. no one said you had to jump into bed together.