Need some relationship advice please?

So me and this girl dated and then we stopped. I could tell something was wrong so I asked her. She had come out of a 5 year relationship and said she needed to be single. Since then she hasn't talked to me very much and even though we aren't dating I wanted to be her friend. I kind of felt neglected and let it fizzle. Now I have forced myself to overcome feelings for her even though they were so strong at one point. I can tell she is making sure I hang around. I have a feeling that once she gets over her ex boyfriend shes going to come back to me. I'm not sure if I should welcome her back or not because she really has hurt me by neglecting me altogether. Would you take someone back in this situation? Am I being to critical on her for coming out of long relationship?Need some relationship advice please?
If i were you i wouldn't because shes going to be single and have her fun probably doing things with other guys then when shes done with all that and is ready to be in a relationship again shes knows you wana be with her so she'll probably come back to you,i mean i understand she came out of a long relationship but im my opinion it would be wrong for her to be coming bck to you after she neglected you especially since she hurt you. but everyone deserves second chances i say. Just be sure that w/e you decide its what you rly want!Need some relationship advice please?
im sure she didn't mean to neglect or hurt you but she did come out of a long relationship so she needed time to think. i would forgive her.
well a long relationship is tough, so maybe you should cut her some slack. However, it is not fair of her to just come back to you wenever its convenient for her. She could decide to come back to you one day, then all of a sudden be insecure again. I say give her another chance, but if she leaves again, thats it..
yes, try to understand the situation she is in


you should be happy with her decision in a way.


she is trying so no one gets hurt.


let hr have her space


if its meant to be it will alaways have its way.
Shes being honest with you - at least give her that..





I think at this stage you should just remain a distant friend because you being around her may cloud her judgement and stall her healing process, she needs space.. 5 years is a long time to be with someone..
Dont do it

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