I need RELATIONSHIP advice from you guys, Please?

I began dating my GF 15 mos. ago. It was long distance, though we saw each other alot, so that was no problem. It was bliss between us and she called me all the time, did sweet and thoughtful things for me, wanted sex all the time, and was very much into me. At about 10 moved back and began acting slightly clingy/possessive, which I've never been before. She broke up w/ me for 1 month and we then got back together and have been ever since. Recently she has told me she is not happy, and has been trying to force it. This obviously hurt me since I care alot about her. She has not called as much, doesnt sound excited to talk to me, and is very business like sometimes. It is back and forth. I do alot for her and am always there. People have given me advice that I need to be less available, masculine, and become a challenge. My question is that I know this works initially but do you think this can help my relationship by a different approach. I want to do whatever it takes and need advice...I need RELATIONSHIP advice from you guys, Please?
Be just fwb. That's always pretty nice.I need RELATIONSHIP advice from you guys, Please?
It seems like the honeymoon period is over my friend.





Think about what it was like when you first got together. Do you still do the same kinds of things now that you did then? Perhaps this girl is the type that needs passion and excitement in her life to keep it interesting. If you have just become a regular guy to her, then she is going to treat you like a regular guy.





However, the first reply may be correct, she might just not be interested anymore. You should try something to gauge her responsiveness and see how she reacts to you.
You took a break!?!? worst thing to do, once you have a break you know thaty something has gone wrong but...





1) you don't what it is


2) if you ask you'll split up


3) if you don't ask you could split up





I would do my best, but after a while if she doesn't change, shout out your feelings!
same problem here look she is playing you and if you try to become her friend your just hurting yourself just leave it may hurt but its much worst when your their
im dealing with the same crap, but now she considers me just a friend, she left me last week, i dont know i dont even have an answer for myself
I don't know how u made that relationship work but, you have to rekendel the flames that u two had when u first met. U got to b da sweetest person 2 her like, u have 2 make her fall in love with u again. U have 2 tell her that she's da beautifulest person u ever met. U have 2 b more available. U have 2 send her letters with ur heart poured out em them. Spray them with colone n tell her thats wat love smells like. Be more romantic then you've everr been in your life. If that doesn't work u have 2 let her go. Wen u love some one its kinda better 2 let them go cuz u might find them in da future or someone thats better than them.
This seems like she don't wanna be with you. Have u asked her what went wrong so that you can fix. She might have met someone else, if she was always keen about meeting you, and calling why back off now. Just tell her how you feel, you have to sit down and talk to her. If she has a new relationship then you deserve to know. Just give her time to make up her mind, tell her u can't wait forever, as this is hard on you.
breaking up is hard to do, it's tough to dump someon,i had a girl like that I told her let's take a break,I'll call you,and she's calling all the time..How's this...don't call her..wait for her to call you. ';if you love something set it free,if it comes back it is yours if it doesn't it never was';
Baby! Obviously she doesn't know herself that makes her adumbate about her relationship. How old is she? is this her first relationship? Just ignore her and save yourself from this grand hell pit %26lt;3
Love sucks.


You cant MAKE someone love you.


Its too hard.


You know when your in love and ou give them everything they want or all the attention and love they get get.Then boom. they dont love you anymore.


Your sittin there thinkin WTH? I thought i was Great for him or her.


But hey., Life sucks sometimes,


Yes theres millions of people in the world but who says your gunna find them ?





Love sucks.


just try and deal all u can do is wait.,
She's just not into you anymore. it happens. It happen to EVERYone!
I think maybe she is just tired. Give her some break time away from you. You said the relationship got rough when she moved back near you right? Let her have some time away for a while. I think she just got a little too much of you all at once.
I know exactly what you're talking about man. This happened to me as well. Honestly there isn't much a man can do when this happens. You should never change who you are to get a girl to like you, so I don't advise becoming some honcho man trying to woo her back. My advise would be to actually step backwards, without breaking up with her try and restart the relationship. Start out small like you did in the beginning. The way I think a relationship works is that the couple starts out small and they work their way up as high as they can go. (pecks, to small kisses, to full on making out, etc...) However we all reach a certain point where one of us isn't willing to go further and the relationship starts to die. So unless you can find a way of getting the relationship to ';keep going'; all you can do is start over...





I hope this helped. Good luck!