My whole relationship? Advice/Opinions Please. LONG?

Me and my exgirlfriend started dating in October and then at the beginning of December we broke up. I dumped her because my family doesn't like her, and I felt like she was doing nothing with her life. A few weeks later we got back together and she changed a lot-- I helped her enroll in school, and things were going well. I was also living in the same town as her when we got back together and all was well.





Then, school started up again for me and I had to go back to campus. We dated for another 4 months but gradually drifted apart just because I was so busy with graduation, jobs, and studying for the LSAT. One day she called me and asked if I would go out of my way for her and see her that weekend, I told her no I was busy and one thing led to another and we broke up again for the second time.





Two weeks later, I called her and I told her how I felt about her. I told her that I loved her and that I was just being stupid. She said that we needed 'time to focus on ourselves' and I agreed since I was so busy anyway. She said things like ';I cant be with you the way you are right now, and I dont want to be with anyone the way I am right now'; and ';I know I wont ever technically get over you, I will always care for you and wonder if you are OK but I will try and 'move on'.





During this time, I thought about her a lot and she is friends with my bestfriend so he told me what was going on. He said that she still ';loves me like a boyfriend'; He also said that she was ';waiting for me to get home so we could start talking again.'; He thinks that we are going to get back together, pretty much.





I let three weeks go by and I called her. We talked for about 3.5 hours just catching up and everything. My bestfriend talked to her later about it and she said that ';we talked forever and it went well.';





Two days later we texted a little bit, and I tried to make a bet with her to set up a date. We both like to draw so we picked a subject and I said ';if i win then we go out to dinner and if u win whatever within reason';. She replied ';hmm.. Ill have to think about it. I'll figure something out by tommorow'; Well, the next day (yesterday) she never replied to me or anything.





I get home from school in a week and I'll be in the same town as her again. I really want to be back with her and spend the next year with each other living so close. When we are together we both have a really good time and I just want to make things work in general.





Does she just want to be friends with me? Should I move on?


How do I know what she wants from me?


Do I call her whenever or should I give her more space?My whole relationship? Advice/Opinions Please. LONG?
I think she loves you for sure but things are just really confusing at the moment to make things work. I have a lot of respect for both of you for putting your education first and being mature enough to break up and still be friends in this situation. Sounds to me like use are meant to be so just be patient.My whole relationship? Advice/Opinions Please. LONG?
it sounds to me like she hasn't gotten over you. if this is the case then i would say you can call or text her whenever you please. i think she may have just been too bust or forgotten to reply to you yesterday. like i said before, i'm sure you could make a relationship work with her but you really need to be sure that this is what you want. it's cruel to get into a relationship with someone only to get too busy to spend time with them again and again. i'm sure you have thought about this though. good luck.


and btw congrats on the law school =)