I need relationship advice, huge fued, family, girlfriend, help!!!?

I've been dating a women for about two years. I'm 21, she's 30. I love her and she loves me. My parents don't like her. They think that because of her job (she works with the forest service and is up on the mountain with a bunch of guys maintaining hiking trails) she is most likely unfaithful. My dad keeps saying ';when women are away they tend to play';. They say that I'm an idiot if I stay with her and that I'll loose credibility with them if I do. I will not leave this women. I love her too much. But if I stay with her then I fear it'll have a lasting Negative impact on my family. What should I do?I need relationship advice, huge fued, family, girlfriend, help!!!?
Well, cutie.. I answered this once for you and obviously you didn't like to hear the truth.. .so instead I will tell you what you WANT to hear instead...


Wait for her for the rest of your life because she OBVIOUSLY LOVES YOU! She is talking over her dreams of being your wife and mother of your children with those other dudes up there... because she values their opinions. You are her first priority, the love of her life and if you asked, she'd DROP this career for you in a heartbeat. She's been dieing to hear you Pop the Question so she can forever be YOURS! She has been as faithful and clean as the Pastor's sheets, so there's nothing you really need to worry about!


Do I get my 10points now?I need relationship advice, huge fued, family, girlfriend, help!!!?
I agree with your dad. That is ridiculous, especially if you've been together for 2 years. I can never imagine me telling my boyfriend that, or vise versa. Your dad is right. Sorry. That's just sketchy, no woman would do that out of honesty.
Well, first things first.


1. Don't worry about your family too much. Whatever they think of her, and whatever her history, you're the person involved here. You make the call. Stereotypes are not too accurate applied to individuals, and history is full of well-meaning families that screwed up relationships for their children/siblings. If you and she end up married, your family will adjust (hopefully), but that's their business.


2. That comment from your girlfriend is a little unsettling to me. Sounds like you're taking this relationship a good deal more seriously than she is. Your Dad may have a point there, oddly enough, although it's never easy to figure out exactly what a woman means by her statements. Personally, it sounds to me like the sort of thing a woman says when she's trying to ease out of a relationship, but have it be not her responsibility. You might want to take her at her word, though, and start dating other women. The more experience you have with women, the better you'll be able to understand them (although that's like the difference between 1 and 10 on a scale of 100), and that can only help when you eventually get around to getting married.