URGENT HELP!!!! relationship advice please...?

Me an my bf have been goin thru some rough things..


We have only known each other about 9 months...His feelings for me are a lot stronger than mine..


I hav already found out that he has lied to me,, he had pics of naked girls on his phone..


he also talks about me to my best friends bf sayin that he is jealous of their relationship because he hasnt got his d**k wet. Im not the type of girl to have sex with a guy when i barely know him..


I only agreed to go out with him really was because he kept asking me so basically i did it to shut him up.


We argue like everyday..


He never makes any decisions and relies on me to do everythin..


Im 18 an he is 24,, he says he wants to start a family with me an i am no where near ready for that!!!


He thinks buying me things will make me love him when i dont., he has already brought me a car and i dont even have my licence yet!!


I have been trying to break it off wit him for ages but he wont take it.. he says i need to put mor effort into things..


I need help with how to break up with him.. i know its gonna hurt him but its better done now than leave it later..


any advice is grately appreciated. :)URGENT HELP!!!! relationship advice please...?
You have a real big problem on your hands, but the only real way to deal with it is by letting go and moving on because it doesnt sound like a good healthy relationship. You two are on two different boats headed towards different places. He seems to be a little on the immature side and this is a problem. Your going to have to let him go little by little. The way you can do this is by telling him that you dont see the relationship going no where, but you are willing to give it a small chance. Give him a small time frame to fix the relationship but before you can give him that one last chance, explain to him your views on sex, marriage, gifts, etc. and set limits as well. If he is willing to go through with it, you might find that there might be some hope after all and might be able to be in a relatioship, if he refuses, then walk away and tell him you cant deal with it. Most likely, he will agree. If after that week, you still feel the same, tell him that you have tried and appreciate the gifts and are willing to give them back, but cannot be in a relationship with him and walk away. There is nothing more you can really do...





Your first mistake was getting into the relationship without even really wanting to be in the relationship in the first place. You set yourself for failure right there, so take this relationship into serious consideration and make this a personal experience that you do not repeat. If someone is not able to take a no for an answer no matter how many times, then he/she is not really companion material. Good Luck sweetheart as I see you are going to need lots of it.URGENT HELP!!!! relationship advice please...?
just tell him wat you just said...


tell him your not close of starting a family and that you shouldnt have pics of naked girls on you phone





just tell him your a great guy but you have school and thats more important... tell him you just wana be single and not worry about anything else... give him back the car and just say sorry...
He sound like a waste of time





Tell him you just dont love him and that u cant make yourself love him





Just make a clean break and try to forget that its gonna hurt him cos in the long run being with him any longer and pretending to him that you feel something u dont will only end up hurting him even more...





Good luck
Run like hell!!!!





I would elaborate, but it's not even worth it.





You have no reason to move your life too quickly for him, rush having children, rush having sex, feel indebted to him because of his gifts, etc..





Get out!!!
Ummm, politely explain that you don't feel the same about him, and that he has to accept that.
I think you should just let him get his dick wet
how come u just tell him tht u are in love with someone else i hate when guys keep begging to go out with someone and they dont have feeling for u cuz i was begged to go out once b4 and it got on my nerves so i did as u did i just went out with them for a week and broke up with them and nobody cant make no body love them tht is they way it is





just tell him ur inlove with someone else tht u dont love him i hope tht helps
Firstly you sound a lot more mature than he is.





There is no way you break up with him that is going to be easy.... you could give him the old ';I just want to be friends bit...'; which is like a slap in the face to a guy, or you could be honest and just say ';You might not realize it now but you and I are just not meant for each other, it's been nice... but it's time to move on.'; and stick to that statement.





DO NOT try to save him from hurt by dragging him along.