I NEED Relationship ADVICE please! so there is this guy..?

I've known this guy for about 2 years now but we've only really recently started hanging out for the past 3 months. (we work together but he works in another building) anyway..when we finally had the chance to meet he was really quiet and awkward. Turns out he thought I was really cute. We began to hang out everyday for lunch. There is one problem though. He is married and he says that he is only with her because of the children. He's already told me he loved me and he tells me that he felt that we had chemistry from the moment we saw each other. He acts so sweet with me. He tells me I am beautiful all the time and he's always touching my face and moving my hair out the way. He looks at me like with adoration. He says that he can sit there and stare at me and just look at me. He says that he is the happiest when he is with me. He says he hasn't felt this way in a really long time. I mean I can tell in his eyes that he really does mean what he says. He listens to everything I say. He remembers the most silliest things. Its like he's trying to get use to all my little quirks I do. My dilemma is that he is married and I don't want to be wasting my time. He seems like he wants to be with me but at the same time its confusing cuz he's still with his wife. Need advice!I NEED Relationship ADVICE please! so there is this guy..?
He's playing you. It's the oldest line guys will give the ladies...';I'm only with her because of the children. The love is has been gone for months/years/you pick a time frame, etc. etc.';. All the while he's trying to have it both ways -the security of the wife and family on the one hand, while at the same time trying to play around with another. Tell him to have the honor to live up to his commitments/vows like a man. But if you continue this remember... if he'll cheat on a wife and kids, what do you think he will do to you if he thinks something else comes along. Save yourself the grief/guilt.I NEED Relationship ADVICE please! so there is this guy..?
Do you want to get serious with him? If yes tell him how much you do %26amp; ask that he thinks about it %26amp; make up his mind. Falling in love with a married man is not a taboo but three is a crowd as they say.2 years is long enough.
omg, never date a married guy. it wont work out. and if it did, would u really wanna blame yourself for him leaving his children?? i would say be friends and only friends. sry
If you loves you as much as he says he does, he would divorce his wife. I don't believe in divorce, but its different if somebody's entire love life is at stake.
FORGET ALL ABOUT HIM !!!


Any unworthy male would love to have other females in his stable.
He sounds creepy, and you will go down in history as a home-wrecker... and nobody likes a home-wrecker........get it?
Yes we have all been there, but usually it goes like this: he says he does not sleep with his wife. You get pregnant and he insists that you have an abortion as his wife is also pregnant and he cannot afford two more kids.


Then he say he loves you and wants to marry you so you both can be happy forever blah blah and only asks you to wait until his youngest son's bar mitzvah, graduation, grand parentage and when this time comes it gets extended.


Do you get it yet? Most men who deceive their wives are not a good bet for a loving relationship. He is having his cake and eating it (or headed that way) and if he were decent and seeking another relationship he would end it with his wife: this has nothing to do with him being a father, that is for life.


You do not need advice, you know right from wrong at your age, so end it before you get in so deep you cannot unravel the web.
STAY AWAY you are in a terrible situation his poor wife why did you go near this guy to begin with. . . .imagine if you were his wife, killing yourself working, taking care of your kids, doing housework, keeping everything together and your husband is off at work hitting on another woman, telling her he loves her! if he is only with his wife for the sake of their children he should be telling her that not you! he is already committed to someone else you have no real place in his life other then someone his kids might someday hate and his wife will call a whore . . .do you want to be that girl? find someone already unattached a guy would have to have no balls and a minuscule package to play his wife like that i mean he is so wormy he doesn't have the guts to end it with her and is being all snaky with you trying to get some. He might seem shy and cute but any guy who was a real man would never betray the mother of his children and the woman he pledged to love until death like that. he has no spine and no balls no woman wants a man like that. Girl get away now or you are going to regret it forever do not waste your heart and time. You do not belong in his life don't break up his family.