I need relationship advice please?

my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me last thursday, so its been almost a week, he said he doesn't feel the same way anymore, and that we should see other people and all that, but he was acting so loving all this time and took me out for a weekend at the beach and everything. He said i hold on to the past too much, its cuz he he cheated on me once and i didnt bring it up or anything unless we were on the subject but anyway, i waited 4 days and then i cracked, and called him and told him i will give him time and that i still love him. He said he still loves me but needs time to himself. now im trapped cuz i cant prove to him that he is more important to me than anything in the past. I love him so much and were going to school together in the fall, of course i want him back and ive been trying to keep positive about us getting back together. everyone tells me to just not call him and not say anything to his friends and he will soon realize he wants me back. we are both 19 so i can understand maybe its too much commitment for him but please give me kind words im really suffering. What should i do? I need relationship advice please?
Same thing happened to me when I was 19. My boyfriend of a year and a half dumped me and I was heartbroken beyond anything.





Don't make the same mistakes I did.





Don't contact him. Don't ask him to hang out. Delete him out of your phone if that's the only way to stop yourself from calling/texting. Don't obsess over his MySpace and Facebook accounts; finding new girls leaving messages or looking at things he's said to other girls. Don't go hook up with random people and have rebound flings. Don't listen to sad songs, Don't watch sappy movies. Don't dwell on things he's said or done since you've broken up. Obsessing over it will make things 10000x worse.





Do go out and have fun with your girlfriends. Treat yourself to spa treatments, manicure, pedicure, get a new haircut. Take up a new sport or activity at your school. Maybe a new gym thing, like kickboxing or something to get you hyped and not just sitting around doing nothing. The more you keep busy and the more you keep away from him, the more time he will have to be aware of your absense and to figure out if he misses you enough to get back together with you or not.I need relationship advice please?
hang in there and listen to your friends. they are smart. if he is the one he will come back even better than before. if he doesnt then move on and find someone new. there tons of them out there....
If you love him, give him this time, which he needed. And if he still loves you, he will be back to you, don`t worry, just wait but don`t call him, listen to your friends more, they are right. When someone want time...and this is someone, who you love...you should give him...Don`t suffer, you can`t want from someone to love you...if loves you..he will be back, i`m sure...and I`m sure that he knows you love him...

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