Need Relationship advice BAD!!!?

Hi everyone. I am so overwhelmed right now I don't know where else to turn. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about ten months now and are having some problems. Obviously, every relationship has difficulties but it seems like this one lately has had many. According to my gf, I don't treat her like she is my gf; she says I treat her more like a friend. Personally, I think I am doing a great job; I just driver her to her grandparents house which is 4 1/2 hours away, I send her flowers, I take her to dinner on a regular basis, I am always hugging her and kissing her, and telling her how much I love her. For example, on our 4 1/2 hour car ride home last night, we had amazing conversation, we were as close as possible, she was kissing my neck and and she didn't stop smiling the entire car ride. This morning, I somehow made her feel ';inadequate and not like [my] girlfriend';. It was a complete turn around from yesterday and I just don't know what to do. There was talk of break-up this morning and I just don't know what to do. I love this girl with al of my heart and I want to make her feel so special, but I don't know if I have the ability to do so. Any advice will help. Thank you so much.Need Relationship advice BAD!!!?
Try work it out asap but if it dunt work out at least your free to just whore it about a bit :)Need Relationship advice BAD!!!?
Wow! You treat your girl like more of a girlfriend than my boyfriend treats me. But I would imagine part of that is because we live together..


Not the point though.. Maybe you should just point out all the special things you do for her. And remind her that girlfriend includes the word ';friend';. That's a huge part of a relationship. And when she feels like you don't treat her good enough or the way she wants to be treated, ask her what you can do to fix it. Explain to her that you don't want her to feel insecure in your relationship and you will do whatever it takes.
To be honest sound like boyfriend to me. Maybe should ask is it anything she would like for her to do to make her feel more like she's the love of your life. Or maybe try making her dinner and afterwards ya'll can share some dessert(strawberries and chocolate) and then rub each other down with oil that with me a start cause just me you wouldn't do those thing with a friend
i have been there, i mean i am a girl and i have thought that a guy doesnt love me and only likes me as a friend. say to her '; i love you with all my heart, i am doing the best i can to be a good boyfriend, but if you cant accept my work can you please tell me what i need to do because i love you and i dont want to end things with you .
You guys seem fine to me,you seem to treat her very well and with respect.Maybe she is hormonal or something.There are always times when couples argue it wouldn't be healthy if you didn't.I think you are reading too much into it,take each day as a new day.You will be fine at least your heart is in the right place.
well, sounds like its not YOU thats not giving her enough attantion, it sounds like EVERYONE else doesnt treat her like she wants them to, but u catch the slack...if that makes since








anyway talk to her about how everyone is treating her and try to work it from there, i REALLY hope i helped
sounds like something is up with your girl... talk to her about it ask if there is anything you can do to make things better although it sounds to me like your doing alot... I wish my man treated me half as good as you treat your girl I would never feel bad... good luck hope it works out in your favor
So U dont wanna loose her,,





OK, get her to sit with U and speak, and ask her what exactly annoys her in Ur relationship, and what she wants


Tell her that U R ready to do whatever U can to make things better for her, coz ';U love her with all Ur heart';
I Wished My Boyfriend Was Like You!


You Know In A Relationship it cant Be Nice Flowers%26amp;Beautiful Words All The Time,, She Has To Accept That! And Your Doing A Great Job %26amp; If She Doesnt Appreciate That Let Her Go...Eventually She Will Come Back To You. x


Gd Luck
You need to ask her what she wants but it sounds like she doesn't know what a boyfriend actually is.





Ask her and see but if you can't get any decent answers that will help you build a stronger relationship I'd say throw in the towel.
You guys need to have a deep discussion and let her know how you feel and maybe she can explain to you what it is she needing.
sounds like the problem's with her, not you. make yourself available to listen, but there may not be anything you can do.
i dont know?????????



Wow. Sounds like the two of you have completely different views on what is going on. Listen, you need to TALK TO HER. You need to find out what you are not doing that she wants you to do. Most likely she doesn't feel like you treat her like your girlfriend IN FRONT OF OTHER PPL, which is huge. If that is it, take her to a very public place and lay on the PDA. Plus, that could be super sexy for you guys and that might be exactly what you need to keep the flame going! Spice it up and sweep her off of her feet again. Remind her why she loves you! Girls need that!
ok, whatever you do...do not remind her of all the stuff you HAVE done for her. That is basically telling her that she is wrong for how she feels; and nothing drives a woman away faster than telling her that her feelings are wrong.





Let her cool down. Then tell her that you love her, and you're upset to hear that she doesn't feel like you show it enough. Ask her what you could do to make her feel special?





She might just be PMSing and she might just be looking for attention.





But above and beyond anything else, be nice
Ask her to be more specific. She needs to be able to give you examples of what you're doing wrong, or else you won't be able to fix it. Apologize for making her feel like that (even if you don't quite know what you're apologizing for) and tell her that you want to fix it because she means so much to you. Then figure out what's bothering her -- and really listen. Yes, you sound like a great boyfriend, but obviously something isn't right. Maybe you hug and kiss her all the time when you're alone, but what do you do when you're with friends? That's just an example, so be sure to hear what she says when she tells you. Good luck!