I need some relationship advice. I would prefer if guys answered cos if a girl reads this they may hate me.?

I have been going out with a girl for a year, she is overweight but attractive. She is absolutely madly in love with me and i hate the *****. She is needy, she is immature, she is unhygienic, incredibly self absorbed and she is incredibly ******* irritating. She has tried to lose Weight numerous times but has given up after two weeks each time, i have told her she will never lose weight because she has no determination. I admit i manipulate her and she is so confident she will believe anything i say. The only reason i have not already broke up with her is because i know it will destroy her, this does not bother me but will make me really unpopular in my 6th-form. What do you think i should do?I need some relationship advice. I would prefer if guys answered cos if a girl reads this they may hate me.?
Hey mike here at your service





If you do not like her, then it may be time to call it quits, telling her that she will never loose weight because she had no determination is a terrible thing to say to a girl, especially if she knows she is overweight. a girl in that position could really need a confidence boost, do you go and workout with her, couples that work out together tend to stick with the workout plan. i mean if she is not a joy to be around and she is that upsetting to you, then you might want to call it quits, being in a unhappy relationship is not healthy.





i don't want the next paragraph to sound mean, but it will be a little harsh, please don't take it personal, im only trying to help





if your not breaking up with her because you know it will destroy her is a noble thing on your part, but you also have stated that that it doesn't bother you that she will be destroyed, it seems you are more concerned with your personal image than you are with her. you have no one to answer to but, well lets be frank but God. if you don't like the relationship then end it. do i in a gentle way, you know how to do this, it will not be okay in the eyes of the girl. she will be hurt and there is nothing you can do to make her feel better, she may hate you after the break up, but if done correctly she may or will come around and you can be Friends.





above all, do what you think is best, nobody can tell you what to do, nobody can tell you how to live your life, people will tell you how you should live your life. so take or leave what i think on it. just if you break up with her, Do Not think that she will be okay with it, if she is in love with you, she will not find it okay, but she will heal, thats what great about us people, we have the God Given ability to heal and move on and thats what i think needs to happen here





God Bless to you





Mike. P Born Again ChristainI need some relationship advice. I would prefer if guys answered cos if a girl reads this they may hate me.?
um look first and foremost you have to look at your own happiness not hers. If you are not happy with her than that would also translate to her so she wouldn't be happy either. Both of you are losing at this point. But if you break up with her at least you will be happy and she will be still unhappy but at least one is happy right. So look it that way. Is it better for both of you not being happy? or one of you being happy and the other not? hope i helped hehe :) good luck on the break up ( oh that rhymes)
Well, if you are going to chicken out and not just break up with her, you need to make yourself really really unavailable!


Things you need to do, places you need to be without her. Don't answer the calls, don't be home.


But you need to at least say you need some kind of break.





Maybe it's time to move away? really far away?
Do her and yourself and all of us and the whole world a favor....just tell her all what you told us and if she doesn't want to cooperate (after all, you did say she'll listen and do as you say like a robot)....then dump her and dump her fast before she get too worked up over you and can never worship another guy again......You're just the MAN and her GOD...I wonder if she kiss the ground you walk on, you GOD man.
WTF..Scrappy doo is funny..





But i say, just tell her you can't continue with the relationship that its all too much %26amp; you need some time to chill..





Then move on, it might destroy her, but whatever doesnt kill you, makes you stronger...





OR, just tell her everything you find wrong with her, let her get annoyed %26amp; break up with you, you're free 7 move on..
this sounds horrible! why are you with someone you obviously dont even like!? dont lead her on, dont forget that she has feelings and its not fair to her that you do this to her. I mean, how would you feel if you were in her spot??? Do her a favor and break up with her, I dont think this relationship is healthy for her or for you!
If you're not happy with her, you should get rid of her whether she likes it or not. Boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, and she should realize that, especially if she's going to act horrible and disgusting towards somebody she's dating.
Your obviously not happy so break up with her so you can both find someone who truely makes you happy.....the longer you're with her the harder it's gonna be to break up with her.
wow....ill answer without calling you anything i want too (your welcome)





but yeah dont let it get to far or else she might think you wereleading her on so break up with her but ask to still be friends idk





good luck


M
im a girl and id have to say if i were her id rather you break up with me cuz no one wants to be dragged along without knowing it.
dump her


the sooner the better
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know you said girls don't answer.


But, I think you should dump her. Just be gentle about it.
get rid of her
Wow. It sounds like you need a girl that doesn't put up with your crap but doesn't give you any crap either. Obviously, you're not a guy that she would want to date, so I think you two should go your seperate ways.


If you decide to stay with her, and she's still trying to lose weight, instead of telling her that she can't do it, encourage her! Take all the junk food out of her house, and if she's debating on whether or not to eat a cookie, offer her a healthier choice.


Breaking up with her would be best for both of you. She doesn't need to be dating a guy quite like you, and I understand why you're so irritated with how needy and gross and self-absorbed she is. You two aren't right for each other.