What would you do? - Relationship advice?

Okay. I've been seeing this guy for a while, now. When we are together, its awesome, we have identical personalities so we have a great time together, requardless of what we do. However, I met him while he was just getting out of a relationship, (the reason why I am trying not to get too attached because I don't want to get hurt in the end, and he needs time to breath) However, he does still talk to the girl, she moved out and everything, but they just recently went to the movies, so obviously theres still a little something there. Im hurting a little because although i tried not to get attached, I did. I want to be bold and say, ';call me when its over';, but i can't..... What should I say to him if he talk this over? Any advice, or anyone in the same situation?What would you do? - Relationship advice?
I would be bold tell him to call you when it is over. Let him know it is nothing personal but you have to be protective of your self, and it seems like there is still something going on. Besides you don't want to be the rebound girl, do you?What would you do? - Relationship advice?
i say tell him how you feel...tell him you dont want to make him feel smothered but you are growing emtionally attached to him...you want to know if its gunna go anywhere or if you are just there to take his mind off of this girl...
confront him and tell him to decide. if he cant, then leave him. he should of never went to the movies with her or even still talk to her. If he cant stop, id say we are done.
I think you are right and maybe tell him that you can't put up with him still hanging onto her, and dating you at the same time. Even if you are not emotinally attached, is better if you stated your ground so he can know that he can't be playing with you or your feelings. Just tell him that you'll be there when his ready to be only with you.
I have been in the same situation. He was coming out of bad relationship and I felt deep inside he was waiting still for her. One day I did tell him how much it hurts me and how special he is to be. If he wants to be with me then he needs to be with me and if he can't then its not going to work out because I can't fear of losing you every moment. I understand thats his first love and she will alway be important and I'm not asking you to forget those memory but remember there in past.


What I will suggest is you talk to him and tell him how you feel and how your not comfortable with losing him and how special he is to you