Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Need some relationship advice..?

This girl and I have been friends since we were probably 8 years old, we used to be neighbors. Our families are also good friends. They moved away almost ten years ago to the other side of the state. Our families would see each other occasionally maybe once a year since then for visiting. The day I saw this girl when I was young I immediately had a crush on her. Ever since then, since we hardly ever saw each other, I have more or less given up simply because it just seemed it would never work, and I was young and didn't know what I was doing anyways.





Now, ten years later, a couple weeks ago our families went on vacation to the beach together, and it was an amazing experience. This girl and I spent everyday together as if we had never moved away from each other, even though we hardly saw each other for all of high school and most of college..





Vacation came to an end and we parted our ways back to our homes, and she told me to make sure we kept in touch..anyways we have been talking to each other a lot through text messaging the past couple weeks after vacation, she told me she has been thinking about me a lot and it was scaring her because she isn't big on relationships at this point in her life.





This past weekend I went to visit her at her college for the weekend, we spent the weekend together, but..





I am not a big talker, nor is she, so we didn't talk a lot to each other, it wasn't awkward, its just how we are. But I feel I very well may be in love with this girl and I would be a dream come true that I never ever though would happened in my life. She more or less told me she likes me a couple weeks ago but when we spent this past weekend together I feel that maybe both of us were too afraid to make a move? I was disappointed to leave her with nothing more than a hug and goodbye and I'm pretty sure she was also. I need to change this asap. Problem is I would only see her every once in awhile and most of our talking is phone or text. I am not sure how to go about trying to start this relationship. I feel this is my one chance to make this happen and I don't want to lose her. I am in love with this girl and I need to make this happen. Please help?Need some relationship advice..?
Lol you don't even need help


you already got her all you have to do is go out on dates with her. If you know what she likes go do it, if you don't ask her what she's into, go out to a park a festival or something july 4th is coming up spend some time with her you gotta make the moves lol. Work on your game talk her into really liking you share communicate fantasies and romantic things, get her flowers let her know how much you like her.

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