Okay so I guess I'm a pretty laid back guy, I always present myself as a very confident person (which I am for the most part), and I've had people tell me I'm attractive I'm slightly insecure about my appearance though..
Anyways my problem is I can never tell if a girl is interested and before I approach her I have 100% sure she is because I have an extreme fear of rejection. I also keep finding myself i the ';friend zone';. So my questions are how can you tell if someone is interested and how do I approach a girl with the intention of being more than friends?I really need relationship advice?
You have to be braver and have the guts to ask girls out.
Ask them out for drinks , movies, coffees or other places. Thats the only way you can find out whether they will accept or notI really need relationship advice?
Everyone is afraid of rejection-you don't own the market on that.
However, it is a fact of life and you don't drop dead after being rejected.
You have to jump in and smile and let someone know you are interested. That's really the only way.
It's like jumping into a pool. That first contact with the water is cold and a shock but after you start swimming it warms up and gets easier.
There's really no way to know what a woman is thinking. We're all different, and it obvious some of us are very stupid, and some are very smart. Either way the only way you're going to know 100% is if you flat-out ask her if she is interested after getting to know her.
You're asking the ultimate question.
When you find out, let us all know.
Take a chance. Be confident. If people are willing to honestly compliment you, then you must have pride. I will show you in a positive, uplifting, self-constructive point of view:
I am sure your fear has put you back before, but let that be a lesson to better yourself, to fix your wrongs, so that you can get the girl you want if she really does has feelings for you!
If you are rejected, there is still good out there: She might not be 'the one' (that is right for you), there might be others out there better for you, or that you will just suffer, but in turn, deal with rejection so if it may happen in the future, you will be at least better prepared for it than last.
It is a win-win situation. Failure is, speaking ideally, only a state of mind. Errors, adversaries, are the way to strengthen yourself. We all have weak points, but imagine getting rid of that, then you will be a very healthy, confident, and strong person.
Sometimes, it may be easy to stay in your comfort zone. But sometimes, as life demonstrates, working agianst the force, using energy, will show fruitful consequences.. (can't cite an example at the moment, it's night and I am tired). You will lose little or nothing if you do get out of this comfort zone, while if you don't, you will always know you could have tried, that it could have happened, and that it wasn't a very difficult choice.
sup bro....look...all u basically need to do is just be urself..and dont be shy..if ur shy or insecure thats a big no no man...chicks dig confidence....you just gotta go up to girls no matter who it is and be urself and just start conversation...just compliment em on wat there wearing...it honestly doesnt matter wat u look like...as long as u present ur self good and with confidence..you will be fine bro....
hope this helped!
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