JEALOUSY! plesae help..urgent relationship advice needed!?

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i have known this guy for awhile now, about a year. Everybody knows we have a 'thing' or we are linked to each other because he liked me as soon as we met and we used to look like we were together everytime we went out with friends (we kissed/held hands) were both 18 btw. Its really confusing because everybody says they dont understand why i go near him because although hes popular everyone says im wayy out of his leaugue and i have been with way hotter guys!





this has been going on awhile and i change my mind about him all the time, he has asked me out but i have said no and laughed it off alittle, but i get jealous everytime i see him with other girls even though i sometimes try not to show it. although we still speak hes showing interest in one particualr girl and its making me really upset, if i see pictures of them together it really hurts me. i know if i wanted i could go out with him, but its really hard to explain because im scared of getting close to him because people say he cant be trusted!! i honestly dont no what to do- but i have though about this and dont think i only want him because he likes someone else..! i think about him alot and im not really bothered about what people think, i just need to sort out how i feel!! hes also not the guy i could tell any of this too because it would confuse him and im not into telling people how i feel so that NOT an option! he also is very forward and we flirt alot so he knows how i feel i guess. so what should i do and why cant i make my mind up!


Zara. xJEALOUSY! plesae help..urgent relationship advice needed!?
judging by what you said, it defiantly sounds like you have feelings for him, and it sounds like he has feelings for you too. you either love him or you hate him. he obviously likes this girl and the last thing you want to do is break them up. i think you should just tell him how you feel. and maybe he might feel the exact same way in which case he will leave that other girl and he will go for you, which means he liked you all the time and that girl was just a way to make you jealous i guess... don't worry about what everyone says if you two like each other whats stopping you?JEALOUSY! plesae help..urgent relationship advice needed!?
guys dont think like we do.. u may think u have pass enough message to him that u like him.. but as a guy he may not get it. if u want him to know that u like him, u need to tell him ';i like you!';. from ur story he seemed to be interested with u but as u are passing the wrong message.. he just gave up and go for another girl..





about someone say u deserve someone hotter... so childish! who say handsome guy goes with pretty chicks? it's how u feel that is matter... if u like him.. thats good enough a reason..





if u really like him, go to him and say '; i like you';. if he like u , he will accept u.. if he doesnt accept u... at least u can move on... better than now when u r guessing guessing only... life is short.. dont waste it guessing ... good luck girl!
Start talking to him more again. maybe you see him more as a friend over time. If you can trust him, try and get over him. Or, start going out and meeting more guys.





good luck :)








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Zara - he's a player. It's you that's on the line and people are telling you to not go there so don't. He's just trying to get some. He's after someone else. Go out with a hotter guy. Sometimes we dont want to listen to the people that actually do care about us, when you lust after something - and it's hard do to that especially when your so young. If you go, you will get hurt by the sound of things. If you start looking for someone else - you may still get hurt but just not by THAT guy.