I need some relationship advice!!!?

Okay, I have had some bad relatinships. About a year ago, I thought I gave up on men. A friend of mine introduced me to this guy. I said no way at first, but then decided to give him a try. Well, things were great for the first few month. One day he took my daughter to school for me. The next day, the teachers came by to talk and handed me a piece of paper. It had this guys picture on it. Apparently, he had been in prison for child offender. He is at a 1. Im not even sure how bad a one is. This really worried me. I have four kids and two are girls. His home town is very little. I started to ask around, and everybody swears it didnt happen. Long story short, some foster girls his mom had were the around the block type. His mom ended turning them back over to state cause they were so much trouble. Anyways, they tried setting him up to get back at the family.


I dont know who to trust. I want my kids safe. but, I already got close and really like the guy. I am extreamly embarresed that everyone has to know what he done. Should I still keep him around or get ride of him? For the sake of my kids and people around me. How do I know if he really didnt do it?? Help??????








FYI: I know there are girls out there who do lie. My sister did when she was 14. She would tell guys she was 19. When she dressed up, you really couldnt tell the difference. So, I dont want to boot him out if he didnt do it. but, if he did, I dont want him around my kids. And yes, he was in prisson for 4 years over it.I need some relationship advice!!!?
You need to sit down and confront him. Do some research too. Find out what a 1 means. Figure out if he is lying or what. Either way, he should have told you when he felt you two getting close and you trusting him to take your daughter to school.I need some relationship advice!!!?
If he is convicted I think you may want to take caution. Otherwise take your time. Good things come to those that wait.
a lot of rotten apples out there


you just have too look
You cant judge someone on their past. Look at him now. Watch how he handles your children, and inform your children to tell you if he does anything unusual. People mess up and people change. If yall had no problems prior to you knowing then it should not change things now. But just look and watch things silently to double check. I would say stick with him. The moment something comes up big or small that could be questionable I would then leave. Your children should be first but always remember we make mistakes and learn from them. It sounds like he did just that.
so go ask his probation officer for details about the case... find out what the evidence says happened.... obviously he did something.. u dont spend 4 years in prison and become a sex offender for nothing..





that being said i know people who were convicted of sex crimes and are now registered sex offenders for some absolute BS.
Okay wait a minute. My question here is why would you let a guy take your daughter to school who you barely know? That is what you should be asking yourself here. I am not trying to be rude but that us very strange to me that you would do that.





Oh and I would never not believe someone who has said they have been raped or molested. That is serious stuff and I myself have been raped when I was young and if the guy who did that was able to be around kids would freak me out. I would stop the relationship with this man if I were you. Even if people are saying he didn't do it there is still another side to the story and it's better safe then sorry in this case.
It's strange you have to ask ';should I dump him for my kids sake'; ...hum if your kids don't come first, and you are not following your gut instinct then you are asking for trouble.


Maybe in a few years you'll be the mom having to listen to your liar of a daughter(s) about how they were abused by this guy...cause you know girls do lie about that sort of thing...as you so said.


Seriously...if you have to ask you shouldn't be with him! DUMP HIM be it true or not there are a million guys out there..WITHOUT a ';past'; such as his.