Im haveing alot of relationship problems, advice?

Me and my girlfriend don't get to see each other that often, and it seems like one day she just kinda started ignoring me. ive gotten really upset with this in the past and it seems it was accidental, she still tells me she loves me and crap, and i heard from a friend of hers that not too long ago i was all she would talk about. i haven't done anything to upset her and today when i went to see her, she completely ignored me and didn't even say hi to me. what the hell happend?Im haveing alot of relationship problems, advice?
Tell her that you're pretty upset with what she is doing. If she still doesn't stop, then if it means enough to you, maybe have a trial seperation to show her that you are serious about being hurt by this.Im haveing alot of relationship problems, advice?
May i ask how long you've started ';dating';. When i was in school, there was this guy, we sort of dated, but i don't really know why, but everytime we see each other in school i act really nonchalent. It's not like i want to, but it just happens.





We don't see each other except in school and the occasional movie. But i knew that this relationship was just a learning ground, we both decided that studies were more important and so we ';broke it off'; and remain friends.





What i'm trying to say is that sometime he asks whether i was angry with him, when i wasn't. It was just me.





So i guess it's just her.
sooner o later u will see her with a new boy friend. if u really love her then , just do the same ignore her . you will get the result soon . if she lovers u then she will come 2 u .
It seems she's lost interest in you and probably has found interest in someone else. Man, i've been there before and it really sucks and when you really like her it hurts so much more. I don't know what to tell you but maybe you need to move on if she don't show much attention to you or at least you can just talk to her one on one and ask her how she feels about you so you can find out where she stands in the relationship with you!! Gudluk!!
There could be a number of things going on, it seems very plausible to me that the perpetual distance has caused you two to drift apart, which in turn may have led her to start seeing another person. Ignoring you could be her way of coping with all of whats going on especially if it makes you want to leave her. It'd be easier for her to have you come to the conclusion that you guys have drifted and need to break up rather than for her to face the truth and admit to you either she's cheating or that the relationship must end for some other reason (she doesn't want to have to do the dirty work)





I'm sure there's more to your story but from what you posted this is the feeling that I got...
Well, I may be wrong, but either she's really mad at you or she no longer wants to be in the relationship.





I remember many decades ago when I was ';dating'; a guy in the Air Force. He was first in Viet Nam, then went to Germany for 2 more years. I met him at a party the day after he got home from Nam.





Wellllllllll, I was absolutely mesmerized by him. I wrote every day. He called long distance from Germany (which was a big deal back then.) gave me things, all that stuff.





For over a year there had also been something gnawing away at me. I couldn't put a finger on it, but I didn't like it.





So after his second trip home, I decided I just wasn't going to write to him any more.





I guess I thought he would just disappear, or something. It was admittedly very immature of me, but I was only 19 and very naive.





I just didn't know how to handle situations.
maybe shes bored of you


YOU talk to HER more often and then


itll probably be better.
She's probably trying to give you the ';smooth dump.';





Here's some truth--when you think something is wrong, you're usually right. Those instincts don't lie.





She may have found someone new, or she might want to play the field.





Ask her. The worst thing that could happen is that your fears might be confirmed. And if they are, well, you'll know to move on, rather than sit around stewing about a relationship that has run its course.





My sympathies...you'll recover, though. It only seems like the end of the world now--a few years from now, you'll not even think about it.
Best thing to do is play her game and ignore her for a while and see how she reacts
Drop the E in having.





Good luck with the girl.
why dont you get to see her? maybe she feels that you're not putting enough effort into the relationship and it upsets her..you should sit down with her and have a talk ask her why shes been ignoring you.. hope this helps. good luck.