I need some relationship advice, please help. should i move on?

i was in a relationship for 3 years. we began to drift apart, both of us were responding to the other one being distant with more distance. so after our most recent fight, she wanted to take a break, to be alone for a while... i agreed and thought some alone time would be beneficial to the both of us. we said at least a month, but to keep in touch. weeks go by and we don't talk. it felts like a break up. i email and ask whether it is, and she says no, don't be ridiculous, its just a break. and i say that i regret the break and so forth. i make it clear i messed up and i regret it. i send numerous emails apologizing. she says she still needs time to be alone. but still has feelings for me.


fast forward 2 weeks...


i find out she went on a date at the same time she told me she needs to be alone. i did not find out from her, but someone else. she supposedly really liked this guy. so i emailed a big wtf? she said that we were apart during this time, and what happened is none of my business. we have a huge fight. somehow things get settled down and we talk like we should have before the break. we both establish that we still have feelings for each other. and it looks like we might get back together.... but should i? if she still loved me, why go on a date a week after we first went on the break? she tells me she needs time to be alone, but dates other people? it does not seem right to me....


this is real long, i'm sorry. i'm just really confused. i appreciate any help or advice.


thank you.I need some relationship advice, please help. should i move on?
maybe she wanted to make sure you were the right one for her. She needed a break from you is I think what she meant. People need that time away from others to get their head on straight. She probably does want to be with you. I say go for it!!!I need some relationship advice, please help. should i move on?
I think you should really move on, it sounds like she was just giving you excuses while she was out going on dates. It looks like she had already moved on.
Do the same thing?


See her reactions, confirm that she still has feelings for you.
I think she is confused about her feeling towards you. she is trying to see other people to see how she feels with another guy that its not you. she might like him a lot but she isn't sure if she is still in love with you, definitely she love you but remember that its because is 3 years of relationship that it doesn't mean she is in love with you. there is a point here IF she was sure that she only wants to be with you she wouldn't go out in another date and if could happen that she found out after the date that you are the only one for her ..WHY ...why she said that its not your business! for me that means that she doesn't care enough about your feeling and it seems that its not a big deal for her taking any consideration, any kind of respect that for you she is a very important. I totally recommend you to let her go, just do ur stuff and change the page, if she is the one.. she will come back somehow and she might come back because she didn't have good luck with the other guy but you will notice in her actions and how she is with you and from there you have to take a decision that is best for you.





Good luck my friend


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