PLEASE HELP! NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE!!ASAP!!?

So here's the deal... this girl I've been seeing for almost a month... by seeing I mean hanging out and kissing and stuff, tells me she doesn't know what she wants. She says she doesn't want to go back out with her ex bf but I saw them talking at school and heard they talked at a party the other day. She tells me that she doesn't want a relationship yet (cause her last one was like 2 1/2 years) and that she doesn't know what she wants. I'm thinking about telling her that I'll wait for her if she just isn't ready for anything serious but that i won't wait if she is going to keep talking to him...(btw he is very persuasive and has gotten her to go back out with him before even though he treats her bad). Is this appropriate to say or should I just give it a little time?PLEASE HELP! NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE!!ASAP!!?
I think instead of giving her an ultimatum, you should be specific and tell her what you think about him and how your only doing it in her best interest, tell her how you feel about her also, so that she knows that you want to be more than friends. She may think you are just trying to force her to choose if you give her a choice like that.


-Katie


P.S. i think its sweet that you care about her like that.PLEASE HELP! NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE!!ASAP!!?
tell her that you want to be with her for sure so she knows and then if she says she doesn't know then tell her that you will wait for her answer no matter what it is ( and actually be patient girls are supper complicated if you haven't noticed)
say what you want.


she obviously thinks highly enough to kiss you and hang out with you so perhaps your feelings will be received in a caring manner. If not then screw her and move on pal...
She's lying that is what us females do to sometimes get rid of a guy we are really not into like that and if she wasn't ready for a relationship is she kissing on you?!? don't tell her you'll wait then she would just string you along and you'll end up getting hurt in the end.
make sure she knows you like her. and be try to understand but make sure she isn't just trying to telll you she isnt interestead, gurls try to do that alot! ;]
let her tihnk and keep things how they are. But i say if she's still ';going out'; with you and confused or unsure you need to talk to her about what her plan is as far as making up her mind and where ou fit in and where he fits in.

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