I really need relationship advice?

My bf and i have been together for 6 months now and in the beginning things were better than they've ever been with anyone else. I slowly fell for him, hard. i still love him but i feel that were drifting. we did have sex once but i couldn't see how that would change him so much. its almost to the point whenever we talk, i end up crying because he makes me feel as if he could care less anymore. he has an attitude sometimes. other times when we talk he just has the meanest tone in his voice and acts as if hed rather be doing something else. im so sick of being upset all the time but i know if we break up it will be a never-ending sadness for a while. i need every ones advice. all seriousness please. and don't answer if you're 13 and think you know everything. thanks.I really need relationship advice?
chase him off..................u act da same az he do....ignore him 4 a while n c wats da reaction..................if he'z still da same den leave him.........it'l b a never-ending sadness for a ';while';bt u'l b happy aftr dat............some guyz deserve dat








Gud luckI really need relationship advice?
He evidently does not think of your relationship the same as you do. It really sounds as if he wants out of the relationship. He is probably torn. He likes you but wants out of the relationship and at the same time afraid that if he does get out he may be making a mistake. I am sure he cares for your feelings or he would have tossed you to the curb by now. Really though you guys need to talk and once everything is out on the table make a mutual decision on whether to continue or part as friends.
You need to break up. Nothing damages a relationship (one you want to be long term) worse than having sex before you are married.


Most people won't acknowledge this but it is absolutely true. This guy probably just wanted you for the sex. That's what most guys want.


next relationship you have, don't have sex before you are married, it this is your intent, because if the guy you are interested in wants to have sex before you are married then that is probably all he wants from you.
It sounds like he got what he wanted and is now trying to get out of the relationship but doesn't know how so he's forcing you to break it off with him. Let him go and be careful with the next guy, sex won't make him stay. It takes so much more. Good Luck
maybe his feelings for you have faded away with time.. but its no use of you to keep tryin %26amp; gettin hurt,,, you need to act as if you dont care neither %26amp; soon he'll realize what he's missing %26amp; change.. :-)





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i think that mabe you need to go out with some friends and have fun, and take your mind off of this for a while! go have fun GO!
I think he might be trying to see someone else while keeping you around hoping for more sex.I know when i act that way with people its because i wish they would just go away.47yr old advice
Dear Buddy,





F....k him and Forget.





Regards %26amp; May God Bless





Senthil EG Iyappan
play hard to get
Honestly, i think its the sex.


Maybe because you gave him sex, he got what he wanted and there is no chase anymore, he probably got bored.





Im so sorry he is making you cry, no guy should make you cry.


He truely sounds like an a s s hole and your probably better without him, but if you really cant see yourself with anyone else, then try to get him back.


Do things that you guys used to do and making things fun for him so hes not bored or uninterested in you.


Plan a surprise for him and tell him that youve been feeling like your drifting.
end it now, before it gets worse. You need to move on and find someone that makes you feel loved, important and that they care.





It's rare to find a guy that knows how to be a good partner, because alot of guys these days are the product of single mother households where the only male role models were their mother's crappy bf's.





End it before it causes you more pain and heartache - life is too short to be miserable. Staying with him with not change how he's treating you...time heals wounds, it doesn't change people's behaviors...
after being together for six months, it's time to be realistic about space issues. in the very beginning of a relationship, everything is new and exciting. you want to spend every moment together, and the guy does, too. after six months, you're probably getting to the point where you know each other well and there isn't quite as much mystery. some guys just need that mystery to keep the spark there. others really don't care. it just depend on the guy.





but one thing is true for almost all adults: we need our personal space. you don't want to loose your sense of ';you'; just because you are now part of an ';us'; and neither does he. if you give him some time for himself, he'll likely be happier when he gets to spend time with you. we are individualistic people. we all need to hold on to who we are, even when we let someone else into our lives. try to understand that he might need a little more personal time than you do in order to stay sane.