Okaii , i need some seriously good advice ( relationship problems )?

Okaii , i need some seriously good advice ( relationship problems )?


ok so i went out with this guy for about a month and it was soo perfect , like i know alot of people say this but hes really not like ANY other guy i even met. i dont care what anyone says like this guy is perfect.


but anyways..


so i moved about an hour away from where i used to live soo i knew i wasnt gonna be able to see him as muchh..


but i stayed w/ him instead to see how things were gonna turn out and it was horrible because it kinda kicked in that i might not ever see him again but we talk every day on the phone and on myspace and he just makes me feel so different from all the other girls..


so we broke up and stopped talkin for about a month but we just started talking again like 2 days ago and he was just telling me how he thought about me everyday since we broke up and thatt he feels like the distance doesnt matter. and its not that easy for me to see him because im only 16 and i dont drive yet..like i just feel like i just havnt fully let him go because i believe that one day , we'll have our second chance


but i was just wondering like should i


go for what my heart says and set myself up for heartbreak again


or go for what my mind says and risk losing my 1st love..Okaii , i need some seriously good advice ( relationship problems )?
don't risk losing it! it sounds like both of you really like each other, so why would you want to let that go? you didn't necessarily have your heart broken because he said that he still likes you and wants to be with you regardless of the distance. once either one of you gets your license, it'll be a lot easier to visit each other. or if you both start to drive, have a meeting place! of course you haven't fully let go of him yet because there hasn't been any sort of closure or fight to drive you both apart. you both still like each other and the only thing that's stopping you both is the distance between you guys. if you really think he's worth it -- and it sounds like you do -- you should know that distance won't change the strength of your relationship. do anything in your power to make sure you guys remain in contact, if you want to see each other for the time being, get a webcam! :) it makes it a lot better than only talking on the phone or myspace -- at least you can see eachother in some way, right? don't let this one go, you guys really care about each other! hope i helped :)Okaii , i need some seriously good advice ( relationship problems )?
Follow your heart.


There is never a guarantee with anything. See how it turns out. You don't know that there will be hearbreak again. Long distance relationships are hard but they are very possible. You have to be willing to put a lot of work and effort into it. Even more than couples who are not in a long distance relationship. Good luck.
Follow your heart sweetie.. wat hav u got 2 lose


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Mm a conundrum, you didn't say how old he is, cant he come and visit you at the weekend may be your folks would let him stay over if you are that serious about each other. We all get our hearts broken at some time or other but if its worth the possibility that at some time down the line it might happen but you could be having a ball just know then maybe its worth a try. I lived in Scotland and my husband lived in Egypt for about a year before i moved over to be with him with just a few short visits in between it was hard but worth it in the end. Good Luck.