Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Okaii , i need some seriously good advice ( relationship problems )?

ok so i went out with this guy for about a month and it was soo perfect , like i know alot of people say this but hes really not like ANY other guy i even met. i dont care what anyone says like this guy is perfect.


but anyways..


so i moved about an hour away from where i used to live soo i knew i wasnt gonna be able to see him as muchh..


but i stayed w/ him instead to see how things were gonna turn out and it was horrible because it kinda kicked in that i might not ever see him again but we talk every day on the phone and on myspace and he just makes me feel so different from all the other girls..


so we broke up and stopped talkin for about a month but we just started talking again like 2 days ago and he was just telling me how he thought about me everyday since we broke up and thatt he feels like the distance doesnt matter. and its not that easy for me to see him because im only 16 and i dont drive yet..like i just feel like i just havnt fully let him go because i believe that one day , we'll have our second chance


but i was just wondering like should i


go for what my heart says and set myself up for heartbreak again


or go for what my mind says and risk losing my 1st love..Okaii , i need some seriously good advice ( relationship problems )?
It seems like a win lose situation. If you stick with him, you could get heartbroken. If you don't, you wont get to love him again. I think they come hand in hand really, and just think of it this way.





Would it be worth it?


Do you want to date anyone else?


Is he all you think about?


Could you make it work?


Is the relationship healthy for you and him?


Does he make you happy?


Do you feel more miserable without him?


Do you feel more happy or sad when in a long distance relationship with him?


Would you regret not going for it?


What will happen if you say no?


What do you think will happen if you say yes?





Answer these, then decide.

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