I really need relationship advice... =[?

So you met a boy/girl and you were talking for a few weeks when you lied about something very serious. You did it mainly cause you thought he/she wouldn't accept you. 11 months down the road you two are dating and are very much in love.


If the lie was ever told to him/her the relationship would surely be over. But the lie is keeping you awake at night, and making you very depressed, but without him/her you wouldn't want to continue living.





No one knows about the lie except you, and there is no way he/she would ever find out unless you told them.


It doesn't directly effect the person, you didn't lie about STD, previous marriage, children....etc..








What would you do?


Tell him/her the truth??


Or go on living the lie?I really need relationship advice... =[?
If the lie is hurting no one but your conscience then telling them would serve no purpose.


Although I can't understand how the relationship would be over if it truly couldn't affect them and you told them.


Maybe you're making too much out of the fact that you lied. Lying isn't good but hurting others is much worse...I really need relationship advice... =[?
Tell the truth. A relationship can't function without honesty.


If it's meant to be it will work out.


Breathe and good luck!
your lying to the person you love. No relationship can survive on dishonesty and mistrust. Think about that
all depends on what it is will it ever hurt him if not forget about it ok just get on with life ok