I NEED relationship advice..badly HELP!?

I've been with this girl for about 8 months and I feel really strongly for her. However, it's a totally one-sided relationship with me doing all of the work and things. Anyway, recently, she's been talking to this guy who lives near her. I know for a fact she finds him attractive and today, she cancelled going to the cinema with just him because i told her i didn't feel happy at all. she's had a history of flirting with other guys and i really don't know what to do... she mails him often too. When she does message him, she puts two ';X';s at the end of it, does this meaning anything? and i really need to know what to do.. i feel really, really badly about all of this. i think maybe she has feelings for him.I NEED relationship advice..badly HELP!?
well i know that u really like this girl but she doesn't sound like a very nice person, i think that you need to sit her down and ask her if she likes this other guy, if she says yes than you need to move on. If the relationship is as one sided as it sounds it is then maybe this isn't such a great relationship in the first place


hope this helpedI NEED relationship advice..badly HELP!?
you dont sound happy and being in an unhappy relationship just isnt good for you, no matter how much you like this girl, you cant spend all your time watching her and who she's flirting with it will bring you down. try to move on and let her flirt with whoever she wants then, let her see what she has lost and if ye are meant to be......! it will be hard but this kind of relationship will mess with your head, go out and enjoy yourself
If you feel your relationship is one sided and you don't trust her then its probably better for both of you if you move on.The two most important things for a good relationship is trust and give and take,without that it will inevitably become destructive.
she maybe is flirting with him but cheatng is such a strong word. just look for the signs of cheating like if she's spending more time with him than u, then u can say she's cheating..... but then again if she's not she mayb see him as a good friend
aww dude i'm so sorry but i think she likes the otha guy beta...if she can't stay faithful to just you then i think you need to break up with her b4 u get really hurt
with the whole 'x' thing...when i text my ex botfriend i put 'xox' so dont worry and i still flirt with him...but i flirt with every1 so idk...