I really need some relationship advice.. Especially because its Christmas?

Me and My boyfriend of 2 years broke up 3 weeks ago. We have talked nearly every other day since. We both attend University other end of the country but now are both back in our original town for the Xmas Holidays. We have decided to meet up on Wednesday for a chat, but I know this means a chat about our relationship. The thing is I have missed him so much and he is my 1st proper true love. But the thing I want to ask do you think it is possible to get back what you had or even better?


And another thing is I'm so scared he is going to tell me he has slept with someone else whilst we have been apart because this evening on the phone he said ';I don't believe you haven't been with anyone else!'; If this is the case that he has been with someone else should I let that go? Or do you think it will eat me inside?


I am so nervous about seeing him, having the relationship we once had would make me so happy. But I need some advice especially from people who have been in similar situations.


Thanks in advance


xxI really need some relationship advice.. Especially because its Christmas?
You're already making a list of what you're going to say and do, and the questions you may ask may not be what you want or like to hear, so why do it to yourselves.





Your relationship for 2 years was based, as I read it on trust, love for each other, and honesty, and three weeks isn't a long time to turn all that around to hate, jealousy and suspicion.





You need to listen to each other, and enjoy this chance at having some time together to sort out what it was that first attracted you both to each other.





This is the guy that you've been with for two years not a stranger, relax, he's sounding as nervous as you... tell him that if you both make a mutual decision to 'give it another go' then these weeks are to be forgotten.





If on the other hand, you both decide it's for the best that you 'split' then do it in the friendship, and love that you've had for each other, and part with dignity.





Your love for each other will never diminish, there will always be that 'bond' between you both, that will be there for always.








Caramac xI really need some relationship advice.. Especially because its Christmas?
Tell him that unless he has something you want to hear, there is no point to seeing each other.
i think it depends on you as a person and how you react to things, i know if it was me i would always have it at the back of my mind, but thats just because of the person i am, would always be like is she prettier than me, was she better than me etc.if this doesnt sound like you then yeah go for it, unless the answer to the next question is yes, if hes cheated while you are seperated do you think he will cheat while you are still together, if you think so then dont go there.








good luck, hope this helps





Angel
Just wait and see what he has to say on Wednesday. A long distance relationship is really hard and not good for your studies, doubt will always be in your mind no matter how he reassures you, but if when you meet you both think that you're still in love then you will find a way to work things out or you may realise that you've both moved on and are now just good friends. It all hangs on how you both feel about each other when you meet again next week. Life is never easy and none of us has a crystal ball - good luck !
i believe you can never get back to what you had together, but that's because i got burned trying to do just that. if you do get back together don't think about the past... its your future together your building not trying to get back to the past, that makes sense to me. about him maybe having sleeping with someone, you should head that off by saying what ever has happened while you were split up don't matter now your back together(if you do) %26amp; you don't wanna know. so just let it go.
Firstly - you need to stop making an issue out of whether or not hes been with someone else and this will eat away at you and drive you slowly insane. IF ye get back together and you feel you have to know - ask him then,


For now though, Id concentrate on the fact that you're meeting up to discuss things - Im not sure that it will work, seeing as a lot of the reason ye broke up with the distance thing - but I think it is possible to get back what ye had before if you're both going into this with eyes open and willing to make a real go of it second time round.


xx