Need some serious relationship advice . . has this happened to anyone?

Met the man of my dreams 3 months ago through mutual friends. We meshed perfectly. And the sexual chemistry was off the charts. We both thought the other was ';the one';. Then we hit a ';bump';. He can be impatient, condescending, and caustic sometimes, and I just didn't like it. And even after explaining it to him, how much it hurt my feelings, nothing changed. In fact, I became the ';villain'; and he eventually broke up with me saying ';we're not compatible.'; I accepted, made a clean break, and moved on. However, I'm still in love with him, and part of me wishes it would work out. . . This weekend, I learned from mutual friends, that his last 2 relationships ended for the same reason, and that all of his friends have also had issues with this. They also told me that he's confused about why things didn't work out between us, given how great we were together in most respects. Clearly, he has a personality problem and he's in denial about it. . . Has anyone been in a situation like this? Is there any way something like this can be resolved? If so, how? Need some serious relationship advice . . has this happened to anyone?
I see that you really did not accept him completely. Do you love him? Then accept him as he is, with his ';personality problem';, do not try to change him. Can't you accept that part of him? Then move on... you just felt passion, affection but not love...Need some serious relationship advice . . has this happened to anyone?
I have been in a similar situation in the past. You can save yourself a lot of pain and suffering if you just let go now and move on. Sure, it's going to hurt for a while but things will get better. Then find a man that is meant to be with you. He is not right for you or you wouldn't be on here questioning it.
Many women marry men thinking that personality %26amp; character faults can be somehow changed after marriage..


It usually gets worse after marriage and divorce is inevitable.


Don't go back to him..


The best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love.


Use your brain to find a husband, not your heart..
It sounds like ( bipolar ).





He's not a bad person; but he would need to be under a doctors care.
You couldn't accept him the way he is so get on with yout life already!
Well I think some people are just a certain way and he is that way with everyone which means it is his personality and he gets upset because people seem like they are always trying to change him into someone he is not. I think that you should accept that he may never change and you tell him that when he is like that it hurts you and you are still in love with him but he has to think about you as a couple not as you not being compatible because you have feelings that can get hurt. Well if he still is the same I say you either have to put up with it or move on without him in your life.
He feels small inside. There is some standard, perhaps in terms of making money, that he feels he can never live up to and he feels he is not worthy if he does not reach that standard. Thus, he is not satisfied with himself, and so he begins to take this out on others.





My best bet. I read this entire book on ';angry males in U.S. society,'; about how our society pretty much judges everything in money, and many men, even if only subconsciously, begin to judge themselves in that manner... Fall short (there is always someone ahead in terms of money), and take this anger out on others.





It may even be that he feels that he is not worthy, and when someone else loves him, he begins to reason, ';If I'm not worthy, yet this person loves me, she must also be unworthy,'; and writes you off by association in this manner.





Think about our role models. Donald Trump: As successful as can be in terms of money... But has he had any success with marriage? Where's his family?





Yet everyone speaks about Donald Trump. Even my aunt was telling me something positive about him the other day and it just made me sick. This man is a failure in EVERYTHING except for his career and the money that comes with it. That is important, but it takes much more than a worthy career to make a worthy human.





So, I direct you to this book:


http://www.amazon.com/Broken-American-Ma鈥?/a>





Really, it would seem to answer your questions directly.





Good luck!
well if you want him back ask him out to dinner and catch up on the new things in you're life and then ask him why does he think that you guys broke up and if he talks about it he wants to resolve things and if not he just wants it the way it is but from what i hear i think you guys are going to get back together.. you have to be there for him if you want him to change his ways as much as he is annoying to you sometimes if you love him you have to help him work out his problems.


good luck hun